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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:55 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She fills my eyes.

This reads like poetry, jj. I'm very, very happy for you.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 19773 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am happy for you jj. Focus on getting to know each other really well. Best wishes to you.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3315 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

Posts: 13553 | Registered: Jul 2011
wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Like.


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15359 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awww...


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Newlease
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

jj - So glad you've joined us. I met you at one of the Dallas GTG. I believe the Makers Mark had its way with you that time. But you seemed like such a good person - suffering as we all have.

I'm just tickled that you're feeling this feeling! I will tell you what I told my sons growing up. "Don't be afraid to go out on a limb - that's where the fruit is!"

And if it doesn't work out exactly as you hope, well the ride will be worth it and you will learn some more on your journey through life.

Sending strength and peace and lots of !

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

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cryingdaily
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Default  Posted: 11:07 AM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwww, JJ. Yay!

I echo what everyone else has said. Go slow and let it happen.

And if things take a different turn, you will have new experience to draw upon next time.


Me: BS 48
Him: Doesn't matter any more.
The Royal Court, formerly known as the Princess Posse:
DD31 - Belle
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GD10 - Jasmine
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Posts: 14393 | Registered: Jun 2005 | From: Massachusetts
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love reading this... keep us posted.

Passing the popcorn....

Hugs,

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4822 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy for you, jj!

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BW-43
Him: XWH-43
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4365 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
soverybetrayed
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am smiling from ear to ear! So happy to see you finding a tingle. Take it slow and let it grow.


Me-53
DDay 10/16/2010 DDay2 5/22/2011
Divorced 8/23/2012
I will get stronger and better but no matter where he goes, there he is....

Posts: 1201 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Texas
inhishands55
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy to hear that you have some good news jj...Enjoy the tingle..It is so much fun, especially in the beginning...When you feel the butterflies and the like it gets better and better..

Enjoy all your new feelings...Have a good time..I always tell people if you don't reach out, you might miss who you were suppose to have in your life...


Posts: 408 | Registered: Jan 2006 | From: The Tarheel State, in the mts.
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 11:37 PM, July 5th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 4:37 AM, July 6th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course I remember nl! (It was Woodford Reserve - same State as MM! - haven't touched it since )
You, cd, & others are saying things that are helping me to reinforce, & confirm my quiet feelings. Take it slow. Enjoy.
Part of what's different is the ability to be sanguine about it - if it doesn't work out.

It lends a freeing and a refreshing...a strength aspect to the tingle.
Through all the struggle, may we all obtain a superpower: surviving infidelity, whose main weapon is:
the ability to let go.

Will be interesting to learn how it manifests - should things go forward into deep intimacy (it already seems intimate inside me - feels marvelous!)

Thanks to all! You're the bestest! I will update.
Headed out now for family, will be back in a couple of days...


Posts: 6421 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, July 13th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

update?


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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