Topic: Update...Karma is a bitch and has puppies...2.5 years later
Member # 30619
| Posted: 8:40 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013|
Hi! It's been awhile since I have posted but thought I would share a quick update. I often thought that karma would never come back to get XH and OW but sure enough much like everyone said on here it does...not long ago I received a picture of a FB post that ow had posted. Normally I would say I don't really care but....this was too good not to look at. It was a private convo between ow and another girl asking if this girl had sex w XH at bar one night bc she didn't want to break up her family if it wasn't true. This girl came back and said yes she had no idea he had a family. This entire convo was posted on FB for all to see including XH. i feel awful for the OC bc obviously XH will never learn but a part of me was secretly very satisfied that this happened.
(((Big hugs to everyone!! )))) I'm 2.5 years and and rarely think about my XH and haven't talked to him in a year. It does get easier.
"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes. I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best"
Posts: 528 | Registered: Jan 2011
Member # 36519
| Posted: 8:55 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013|
Oh, wow! That's one crazy story. OW got herself a real winner, there. I wonder if she gets it?
BS (me): 49
Married: 25 yrs
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R
Posts: 1035 | Registered: Aug 2012
Member # 23547
| Posted: 10:39 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013|
Sweeeeet!! Serves her right!
Three D Days in April 2009
Multiple affairs, LTAs, and many OWs
Reconciled... There is hope! :)
Posts: 396 | Registered: Apr 2009
Member # 38681
| Posted: 11:42 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013|
Wow one more confirmation that karma strikes when we stop caring and move on.
DS: 3 year old.
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.
Posts: 294 | Registered: Mar 2013
Member # 34262
| Posted: 11:43 PM, July 3rd (Wednesday), 2013|
Shocking that a cheater would cheat like that!
Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish
Posts: 1851 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Member # 35229
| Posted: 6:29 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
I'm hoping OWUmpteen cheats on him before he gets the chance to cheat on her. I'd be surprised if she hasn't already.
If they cheat WITH you there's going to cheat ON you.
I am SOOOOO glad he is not my rabid dog to keep on a leash anymore.
Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Posts: 4511 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Member # 15942
| Posted: 8:28 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013|
When you step in dodo and track into your life....it tends to stink up the joint.
Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.
Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.
Posts: 3948 | Registered: Aug 2007
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