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User Topic: Curious. Same or multiple OP in your case~
sunflowergirl30
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In my case same woman.
EA in 2007 for 2-3 months w/ our realtor.

(She didn't sell our house but she did fuck my husband eventually.)

They were caught & confronted during EA. wh said they were "just friends"....They both minimized and denied anything was going on. I was the crazy jealous wife. She slinked off & I stupidly thought that was the end of that.

No contact until the same mow contacted wh in 2009 from there they picked up where they left off and started up PA that went on for 6-7 months until caught again by me.

Why? My guess is they were all that was available to each other. Bad boundaries and and easy. Convenient.

If wh EVER has ANYTHING to do with her AGAIN...

I would not be able to handle a 3rd time. Being betrayed & lied to yet again over that rat faced, fakin baked, turkey necked married old whore ever again.

Any more "escapes" into lala fucktart land and all i can say is he can be FREE with his cougar...

[This message edited by sunflowergirl30 at 9:26 AM, July 4th (Thursday)]


Together 21yrs married 18yrs
2 kids, now 19 & 16
Bw: now 38
Wh: now 37
Mow: now 50
1st D-day EA w/mow our realtor 4-?-2007, 2nd D-day PA w/ same mow 5-29-2010

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Bobbi_sue
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Default  Posted: 9:11 AM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Every situation is so different.

My XH had more than he could even try to count (Mostly prostitutes but not all of them were).

My current H has been intimate with 5 women in his 57 years, three of whom he married (I'm obviously #3). He cheated on two of his wives (#1 and #3) but with the same whore! I wish I knew more about the circumstances during his first M but his memory is poor and I just know I am never going to get any more facts than I already have.

As time has played out, I have had to draw my own conclusions based on what he did tell me and other things I have been able to discover. I don't think my H held a candle for this whore all those years though it certainly was a question that came to mind when she first intruded our M, and I knew about the "history" 25 years prior.

It seems more likely (in our case) that this whore did tell herself she was "in love" with him all through those years and he was flattered by that when she informed him of it, and during a particularly low time in our lives following the deaths of his mother and DD and other things, he allowed himself to get caught up in the ego stroking as a temporary way to feel better.

Runninggirl, sounds like your D-day was around the same time as mine in 2006. My H expresses nothing but disgust over the whore if there is ever any reference to her. I feel for you with your H acting this way again.

All I can say is that after what we went through 7 years ago, if my H showed one ounce of concern or sense of flattery over anything that whore might do now or in the future, I would immediately file for a D. (I'm not suggesting anybody should do what I would do; we all have to decide how to live our own lives). And I did inform the Whore's H and I'm very glad I did.


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anewhaven
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Multiple, but I have no idea how many. One was for over 18 years. I don't think he was in love with any of them.


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anewhaven
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, July 4th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Multiple, but I have no idea how many. One was for over 18 years. I don't think he was in love with any of them.


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