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User Topic: We finally ran into OW
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 11:41 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Despite the fact we all three work for Great Southwest Health Science Center the three of us have never run into each other after the weeks surrounding D-day. I personally run into OW about once a month or two the last time being at the grocery store after FWS surgery. I do not know how often fWS has run into her. The bitch has pretty much turned into "she who must not be named."

Anyway, this is fWS last week at the HSC before leaving to work for the competition: Ginormous Religious Hospital. Since fWS is non weight bearing on a scooter I was helping her move out of her office with a dolly. And who do I literally slam my dolly in taking a corner too fast?!? You guessed it ... The ho-worker OW. Who refused to look up at us and just scurried away. I was too stunned to speak and fWS was having trouble finishing her story she had been telling me.

When we got out to the car she said "I'm very sorry." " For what?"I said. You see my healing has advanced far enough I was already planning our errand running strategy for the day. "For you having to see OW." "We'll thanks." I said "but I'd already forgotten all about her!"

Major victory for us. For me. AND they won't be working within miles of each other.

And SHE looked old and awful. I guess guilt and shame can really age a person! Ha!

Here's to the future!!!


Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1861 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
RightTrack
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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice, you handled that well. I'm facing seeing MOW for the first time next month. I doubt I'll pull it off with such elan!

Posts: 541 | Registered: Sep 2012
StrongerOne
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was so hoping that you "ran into" her with a car, but a dolly will do.

Ooo, is that bad???


DDay Feb 2011.
In R.

Posts: 791 | Registered: Sep 2012
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yippee for you guys. I know I would have probably backed up and had another go at her. LOL

Sounds like you guys are really getting to a new happy. Congrats!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 6631 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
purplejacket4
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Member # 34262
Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ack! We just ran into her again! Not fair! Usually I get a one to two month respite! Not the next day!!!

Totally ignored her. Maybe God is punishing her.


Me: BS 44
Her: fWS 47 (same sex partner)
Together: 17 now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 1861 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
Josephine01
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Default  Posted: 12:29 PM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

LOL purplejacket4


Me, 42 BS
H, 61 WH
2 boys 19 and 15 years old
Married 24 years

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