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User Topic: Saying goodbye to my cat
LonelyHusband
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Default  Posted: 10:09 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

well, it's been nearly two weeks. OktoberMest and I have had a rought ime of it, but we;re facing things together, which is awesome.

I made this memorial for my little Eva cat. Be warned. If you are a cat lover, this is gonna mess you up.

I hope you enjoy it, and it conveys how much I loved the little engine of destruction that was Eva!

http://animoto.com/play/OoFEd4Ca5mEHoigBK0829w

[This message edited by LonelyHusband at 10:30 AM, July 1st (Monday)]


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LH & OM)))

That was beautiful. You have me crying. I am so sorry for your loss.


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 11:40 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((LH & OM)))

I can't watch it. Crying just thinking about it.


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Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I watched it with my Miss Kitty with the Witties in my lap. I don't know why I did, I knew I would cry like a baby. Cats are amazing creatures. I am so sorry for your loss. I can honestly not imagine my life without my girl.


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll wait to watch until I'm off work, but wanted to send you and OktoberMest my condolences. She was a beautiful kitty.


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JustDone
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Default  Posted: 1:08 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a beautiful song.

I have a matchbox with whiskers in it. Know exactly how you feel.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:51 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just beautiful. Sending love you you and OktoberMest.


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Mommato4
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry. I watched it and just cried. Love the song too.


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Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh....I am so sorry. Cats are amazing and I am sure Eva was the best.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:09 PM, July 1st (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Even though you warned me, I was still messed up by it. Lovely tribute, LH.


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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 2:51 AM, July 2nd (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful tribute to a wonderful being...

Thank you for sharing images and video of Eva. What a sweetheart and a spitfire at the same time.

You captured her essence well in this video.

So sorry for your loss. I truly mean that.

Take care.


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