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TrulySad
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Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just found out about more lies. They have to do with people in his past. But they are people he has had me around, and people he wants in our future...and it's people he's been sexual with. I'm at a loss. WTF. When do the lies stop??? And this TT crap, I don't need it anymore. I'm so tired of waiting for more stuff to come out. I'd rather watch paint dry, then do this. What a waste of my time and life. He tells me this has nothing to do with us, and acts as though I'm messed up for being upset. In fact, he gets angry and walks away. Seriously??? Damn it, I'm mad and don't have time for this in my life : (


Me: Sad, but I will survive

True Love: What I have for my beautiful children.


Posts: 444 | Registered: Jun 2013
BeautifulEmpty
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Default  Posted: 9:36 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't accept this. It's crap.
You be upset but realize, he isn't likely to understand anything until something about it bites his ass or wakes him up.
At least, that's what it took for mine.
He isn't taking responsibility for his garbage and it sounds a lot like he isn't accepting that his crap is garbage.
Tt happens sometimes because they don't want to hurt us and they don't realize that yeah, it hurts but it's better all at once than over and over and over.
The rest of the time seems to be them minimizing. Wanting to keep these people in your life is because he doesn't understand what he's done yet.


Me: 42 BS
Him: 38 ws
Ow: 44 head case, no obs
5 DD's: 21, 18, 17, 15, 10
Last D-day: August 2012 with lots of very blurry lines.

Posts: 252 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Washington State
Take2
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Default  Posted: 10:04 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...people he has had me around, and people he wants in our future...and it's people he's been sexual with


Assuming you mean during the Marriage -- My response to that would be T** F'n Bad! None of them qualify as friends of the M. They go bye-byes or I'd go bye-byes! Obviously he isn't remorseful, and doesn't yet have a clue! I'd be furious!

((TrulySad)))


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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