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User Topic: If you haven't peeked at "Betrayed Men" yet...
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:39 PM, June 28th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I peek in every once in a while. With both hands over my face and just a smidgen of a view between my fingers. Then I scamper away to go find some puppy or chocolate flavored brain bleach.


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

Posts: 17082 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
NoTriangles
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love the Mens Thread! I read it regularly. Shamelessly.

I think for the betrayed woman, reading the other perspective from men who are articulate and introspective and reflecive and can relate to also being wounded, is cathartic. And at times, funny as hell!

Cheers to you guys!


Me: Finding my Sunlight
Him: Traitor in my Foxhole
Let go or get dragged.

Posts: 1251 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: a state of consciousness
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 12:49 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So which one of you wandered off with the Budweiser clock?

Doesn't it look nice in our Girls' Clubhouse, Aesir? hehe....

[This message edited by woundedby2 at 12:49 AM, June 29th (Saturday)]


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7804 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
HopeFloats2272
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Member # 39264
Default  Posted: 1:01 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS- 40, WH 38
Married 13yrs, 2 Sweet Boys-5 & 9
DD#1: 1/10/12- 6mo EA
DD#2: 8/23/12-revealed 1PA, 2ONS in 2010 and 1EA/PA in 2004
DD#3: 9/10/12- ONS w/friend in 2010
Lots of other crap and TT - basically I was married to a guy that forgot he was

Posts: 38 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Maryland
stilllovingher
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Member # 29959
Default  Posted: 1:41 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DAMMIT!!!
RULE #1, PEOPLE...RULE #1.


Gentleman,
operation: Scorched Earth.


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2407 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 1:54 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 4767 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
woundedby2
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Member # 18522
Default  Posted: 1:56 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7804 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Jrazz
♀ Guide
Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 1:59 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


It is better to be slapped with the truth than kissed with a lie. -Russian Proverb

Posts: 17082 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
confused615
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Default  Posted: 5:52 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read it every day.

They're almost as pissed off as I am.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7321 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Mikey56
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Default  Posted: 5:59 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As if there isn't enough betrayal around here already. Now we find our beloved Budweiser clock in the Girl's Clubhouse?

It's like yet another Dday.

The pain never ends....


Posts: 114 | Registered: Jan 2013
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:26 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Posts: 6541 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
floridaredman
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Default  Posted: 6:37 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Those guys are so wise and so supportive of one another. I read it everyday.
Makes me ashamed of the bad choices I made and they give me inspiration to continue being the husband my wife deserves.
And they crack me up too

Betrayed Menz..I salute you


The simplest thing can be the hardest thing to do....FRM

Posts: 2483 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Florida
SandAway
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Makes me ashamed also...

That thread has helped save my M, and for that I thank you


fWW
BH Tred
M 16yrs
DDay Nov. 2011

Guns don't kill people; Affairs kill people


Posts: 433 | Registered: Dec 2012
DixieD
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They're almost as pissed off as I am.

Me too. I love that thread.

And then I've wondered if I should be happy or frightened that my views often line up with WAL and StillGoing


Growing forward

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2011
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 8:21 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

has been a glimpse into the soul of the man's heart I broke, especially when he can't talk about it himself.


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

Me: I didn't sign up for this.
Him: you're already in this. All you can do is resign...


Posts: 4786 | Registered: Dec 2010
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ummm, now that I find out we have so many lovely ladies reading, does that mean I have to watch my language? My mother wouldn't be impressed


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 532 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
Ascendant
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Member # 38303
Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shit, guys, we've been compromised! Everyone grab as many beers as you can hold and meet at *the backup* clubhouse...


I refuse to let a wound ruin me.

Posts: 2041 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Illinois
Sal1995
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Member # 39099
Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In all modesty, we really are mankind's last great hope.


Me (BS)-45, WW-42
PMs with men only, please
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1360 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
Betrayed444
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read it every day.
They're almost as pissed off as I am.

Lol, almost?
Funny
Glad you ladies can check us out.
Betrayed menz section 10 was epic
We went through 50 pages in less than a week.
Check it out. It moves fast.

Posts: 494 | Registered: Feb 2013
aesir
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Member # 17210
Default  Posted: 1:09 PM, June 29th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And then I've wondered if I should be happy or frightened that my views often line up with WAL and StillGoing

Be afwaid. Be vewy afwaid.


Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.

Do not back up. Severe tire damage.


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