Luv_lost, I know what you mean.
I pretty much left the human race for 5 1/2 years after d-day, except for family, and then it was a free flow of snarky comments, no restraint.
Now, I feel like I might want to rejoin humanity. Maybe make a friend. . .
These days I try to treat FWH respectfully. Venomous outbursts are rare. Not absent, but rare.
All of that emotion of betrayal must be dealt with and worked out with time.