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TrustGone
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Posted: 8:38 AM, June 28th (Friday), 2013

I am so sorry for your pain today. I would feel the same way you do and I know it really sucks. I can almost bet you that your WH is not sitting around having fantasies about today and what could have been. After their A fantasy bubble is busted most WS's then start to realize what they did and how messed up it really was. He is probably regretting the whole thing right now and what he has done to his marriage/family because of his poor choices. The fantasy world is gone unless he is addicted to it and takes it underground which is what my WH did for another year after DDay#1. Only after DDay#2 did he start to realize that I was leaving him if he did it again. He was addicted to the high the A gave him and once again thought I wouldn't find out. Stupid since OW was in love with him and had outted him already on DDay#1 to try and destroy our marriage. She outted him again on DDay#2. He then knew he would loss me if he continued because I would find out eventually.

I would take today to make sure her BH knows. That would make me feel better to make sure that he knew. It would be sort of my revenge to WH and OW for what they did and her BH has a right to know everything you do. If he already knows then he might know more than you do. Absolutely make sure that he knows. Waywards lie to protect themselves in so many ways, when really all they are doing is adding insult to injury. (((HUGS)))

BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas

karmahappens
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Posted: 8:48 AM, June 28th (Friday), 2013

From one old cow to another....do something good for you today.

I hope your husband is in the closet strung up by his.....feet.

(((hugs)))

I am sorry, the pain sucks...but you are with a great bunch of folks who care.

“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

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