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User Topic: Mr. Know It All
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was listening to this Kelly Clarkson song in the car this morning, and it made me think of all my friends here who are dealing with unremorseful spouses who keep waffling back and forth, manipulating and saying one thing and then doing another, and I wanted to share it.

Obviously I don't recommend actually playing it for them, but I do recommended keeping up the attitude Lots of love to you all!!

"Mr. Know It All"

Mr. Know It All
Well ya think you know it all
But ya don't know a thing at all
Ain't it something y'all
When somebody tells you something 'bout you
Think that they know you more than you do
So you take it down another pill to swallow

Mr. Bring Me Down
Well ya, ya like to bring me down, don't you?
But I ain't laying down, baby, I ain't goin' down
Can't nobody tell me how it's gonna be
Nobody's gonna make a fool out of me
Baby, you should know that I lead not follow

Oh you think that you know me, know me
That's why I'm leaving you lonely, lonely
'Cause baby you don't know a thing about me
You don't know a thing about me

You ain't got the right to tell me
When and where to go, no right to tell me
Acting like you own me lately
Yeah baby you don't know a thing about me
You don't know a thing about me

Mr. Play Your Games
Only got yourself to blame when you want me back again
But I ain't falling back again
'Cause I'm living my truth without your lies
Let's be clear baby this is goodbye
I ain't coming back tomorrow

So what you've got the world at your feet
And you know everything about everything
But you don't
You still think I'm coming back but baby you'll see yeah...


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
numbandnauseous
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Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it! Thanks for the inspiration!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 12:44 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You were certainly one of the people I was thinking of when I heard it

Glad it's inspiring for you! Hugs.

[This message edited by ButterflyGirl at 12:45 PM, June 27th (Thursday)]


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:15 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love it! Put it on my Favorites playlist.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9674 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I thougt this about my ex before he was my ex.

Love this song ButterflyGirl.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(10)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved to Europe June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"

Posts: 1386 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
fallingquickly
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is a great line:

I'm living my truth without your lies


Me-BW 50
Him-STBXWH

2 Ddays and lots of TT
divorcing

Scars remind us where we've been. They don't have to dictate where we're going. (Criminal Minds)

I saw him, I could not unsee him. -StrongButBroken


Posts: 453 | Registered: Aug 2012
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^^ I was tempted to bold that one


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

Posts: 2239 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 2:43 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am blasting this one on my car stereo when exH tries to get to me. Always helps.

Also, Brandnew me by Alicia Keys works wonders:

It's been a while, I'm not who I was before
You look surprised, your words don't burn me anymore
Been meaning to tell you, but I guess it's clear to see
Don't be mad, it's just the brand new kind of me
Can't be bad, I found a brand new kind of free

Careful with your ego, he's the one that we should blame
Had to grab my heart back
God knows something had to change
I thought that you'd be happy
I found the one thing I need, why you mad
It's just the brand new kind of me

It took a long long time to get here
It took a brave, brave girl to try
It took one too many excuses, one too many lies
Don't be surprised, don't be surprised

If I talk a little louder
If I speak up when you're wrong
If I walk a little taller
I've been under you too long
If you noticed that I'm different
Don't take it personally
Don't be mad, it's just the brand new kind of me
It ain't bad, I found a brand new kind of free

Oh, it took a long long road to get here
It took a brave, brave girl to try
I've taken one too many excuses, one too many lies
Don't be surprised, oh see you look surprised

Hey, if you were a friend, you want to get know me again
If you were worth a while
You'd be happy to see me smile
I'm not expecting sorry
I'm too busy finding myself
I got this
I found me, I found me, yeah
I don't need your opinion
I'm not waiting for your ok
I'll never be perfect, but at least now I'm brave
Now, my heart is open
And I can finally breathe
Don't be mad, it's just the brand new kind of free
That ain't bad, I found a brand new kind of me
Don't be mad, it's just a brand new time for me


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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