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User Topic: Safe!
Flatlined123
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Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 5:19 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just realized yesterday that I finally feel safe with H, or as safe as I'm ever going to feel.

For the longest time I didn't feel like I could trust him to have my best interest in mind. It makes me sad that even this trust isn't complete like it was before. I will always be guarded, I think.

Shared this with H. Told him thank you for doing the work to help me feel safe again.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 668 | Registered: Jun 2012
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 7:18 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2581 | Registered: Aug 2012
2married2quit
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Member # 36555
Default  Posted: 7:45 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's good to hear. It's inspirational.


BS - Me 43 WS - Her 41
DDAY - June 2012 (found the texts)
DDAY2 - Next Day (found out who) EA
TT- till 9/2012 (some PA)
Married 20yrs. 2kids
Status: in careful R. Sometimes spinning our wheels

Posts: 1335 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
crazyblindsided
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Member # 35215
Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love posts like these, that give me hope.

I'm glad you feel safe with your H again Flatlined123


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
Irishar
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Member # 35760
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am happy for the both of you!


Be true to yourself

Posts: 63 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Saskatchewan
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