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PricklePatch
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We have been separated for 2 years. We are now in MC. Finally, he is accepting that there are just somethings he doesn't get about life. Stuff like the ripples of not having a budget and how someone has to know where the hell the money is going and have a budget. It isn't controlling but managing life.

The important point is that there are some things he can't fix about himself, due to his aspberger's. I still want to flee. We are still separated and lead mingling but separated lives. I need to figure this out. The most important thing has been for me to provide stability for our child. She knows what has happened, in detail. We were in the house alone and she snuck in from her friends to listen to a rather heated discussion after d day.

I gucess I wonder if anyone else is still in a marriage where the cheating butt, has unfixable issues. He is remorseful of his actions.

I do forgive him, about the physical actions. I don't forgive him about facebook yet. I just figured out the why of that after 3 years.


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Posts: 297 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: pricklepatch
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have no advice to offer, I just wanted you to know you've been heard.

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