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User Topic: uncovering notes
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 12:38 AM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been spring cleaning (Ok I know it's technically summer) and discovered a bunch of pre-divorce notes.

One thing that bothered me is that I wrote that xMIL laughed at DSs eye patch when she was drunk, and it made him cry.

She did so many horrible things to me after I kicked out XH, that I forgot what a bitch she is to
everyone.


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Dec 2008
numbandnauseous
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Member # 34525
Default  Posted: 12:55 AM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a horrible bitch. Hugs to you and your DS.

((((((((((tabitha and DS))))))))))))


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
tabitha95
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Member # 22033
Default  Posted: 1:02 AM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Divorcing that family was very healthy for me.


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Dec 2008
numbandnauseous
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Member # 34525
Default  Posted: 1:34 AM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I like that attitude!!!

I have a toxic STBX MIL like you, but she is covertly toxic. Yours is brutal to do that to a child!


BS (me) - 41
WH - 48, EA with HS GF x 2
M: 10 years, T: 20
2 small children
DDay#1 - Christmas 2011 (OW#1)
Confronted - 4/6/12
DDay#2 - July 9, 2012 (OW#2)
He is an SA (Oct 2012)
Divorcing

Posts: 827 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: the other side
Ashland13
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Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, toxic IL's here. Some covert, some not so much. Some trying to push me beyond emotional capability right now and it's difficult not to feel selfish.

A child should never, ever be laughed at by an adult and it doesn't matter what state they may be in...sober or otherwise.

I'm sorry Tabitha. The gall.


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2289 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
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