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User Topic: Xwh died today
doggiemom12
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sorry to hear this. You don't say so but I am getting the feeling he ended his own life.

My STBX killed himself last September. I had moved out almost a year before. We were still legally married so I had to deal with it all. I never felt any guilt - he was bipolar and not treated and he really went off the rails.

This will still be a difficult time for you even though you don't have to deal with the day to day fall out. Your children will have a bad time too. Get some counseling for them and yourself. It is ok to feel relief - I certainly did and I feel alot safer now. It is nice to know I will never run into him again.

Try and get some peace about it although that will take awhile. It is a real body blow. Be patient with yourself. You are in shock right now.

You will be in my prayers.


White bird must fly or she will die . . .

Posts: 268 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: in divorce land
jjsr
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am sorry


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1647 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.
Wishing you strength.

((((huge hugs))))


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

Posts: 25435 | Registered: Sep 2005
m334455
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Default  Posted: 11:04 PM, June 26th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wish I could give you a hug right now.

I'm sorry for your loss, your childrens' loss, for everything that happened that shouldn't have and didn't happen that should have.

18 years is a very long time. Be gentle with yourself while you grieve.


BW 38, 5 kids
Dday Dec. 2009

Posts: 4034 | Registered: Dec 2009
Blackhair
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Default  Posted: 3:21 AM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry ! I had tears in my eyes reading your post!

Big Hug!


M: 10 years
DD:5 DS Twin: 2 yrs old
DDay: Earlier 2013, WS flew/met many times with a Philippine girl found online (20 yrs younger)
SA finalized 6 months after DD. divorcing...
I am determined to fly even with broken wings and a broken heart!

Posts: 177 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Canada
npain
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So very sorry. Much hugs to you and your children.


S, Filed 4/17/14--YAY, ME!!

Posts: 512 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
Coraline
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ssm and kids)))


Me: BW, 34 Him: WH, 35
3 Kids: 9, 3, and 1
Decree nisi will become absolute in January. We are DONE.

Posts: 771 | Registered: Aug 2012
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 1:48 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ssm and kids))) I'm so sorry; the conflicting emotions must be so confusing.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 53, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8826 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 2:56 PM, June 27th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. I think many of us here get how you feel, I think I would feel very similarly.

Hugs to your children.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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