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User Topic: Word of advise about pictures
peridot
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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't throw out all of your pictures of your ex and their family. Especially if they are npd, crazy, have personality disorders or if there is conflict. You may need a picture of them years down the road. Save at least one recent picture of your ex and all their family.

I posted in my other thread about the XSIL and church issue. I have a copy of the decree where it's ordered she stay away from my kids but that doesn't help the church with what she looks like. Sure the kids can ID her but they want to be able to cut her off before she gets to the kids. Now I'm having to go through boxes of pictures just to find one of her.

Thought I'd put this out there because I know a lot of us with kids are dealing with a crazy ex or in-laws.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:12 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ACK!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG I never thought of that!



D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:19 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't either and I gave him almost all of the pictures of his family. I'm having to go through all of my pictures just to find one of her.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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tesla
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is she on FB? Can you get get access to a pic she has posted there of herself?


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 2:01 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's not on Facebook. I checked family member's pages and none of them have pictures of her.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 2:04 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

unless she has you blocked... Can you look through a fake account to see?


I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

unless she has you blocked... Can you look through a fake account to see?

I did


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's good advice. I have professional picture of ex and I that I was only keeping to give to the kids so that they'd have a picture of us together. Because Lord knows they may never see us standing next to each other and smiling again until it's one of their weddings or something.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 9:11 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, I kept a couple of him and never removed the one of him in DD's room, so there's that one also.

Along those lines, I also got a hard copy of his birth certificate to keep in my own records with mine and DD's, as kind of similar thinking. It's a strange piece of paper you never know you'll need, like a picture.

That's a good idea.


Ashland 13

The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't think about copying those things. I did keep a pay stub in case I ever forgot his social. My attorney had told me to make sure I never forgot because I might need it for CS or SS.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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