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User Topic: How do I deal with my ex husbands fiance?????
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Default  Posted: 1:09 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I read this about three times so I completely 'got this'.

I think that you need to be professional with your ex husband and new gf. She seems like she is trying very very hard to get along with you.

You come across really needy and I believe there WOULD be a reason for you to be seeing your kids 'every other week'. I'm not sure how the court system works in America but at least in my state in Australia it's almost impossible not to get 50/50. If that's what a parent decides.

I also am wondering why you on an infidelity forum when you were trying to be the other woman and clearly have no remorse.

I think counselling may be helpful for you and an extension your children's lives.

[This message edited by lauren123 at 1:18 AM, August 3rd (Saturday)]

OW1 inadvertently let me know WH loves English breakfast tea. Never ever saw him drink it. And I never will.

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Default  Posted: 3:26 AM, August 3rd (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What was the text to her about when you had the kids?

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Default  Posted: 12:32 AM, August 5th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The next time you text her, stick to business only. If she flips out, then save that text. You want to look good to a judge if you try to get your children more.

It would bother me, too if they call her Mom. I think what happened is you were trying to be nice, let him have the kids, now he has them all the time, and the OW flips out over everything and changed up the story of what was said.

When you get about 50. go to walmart and get a voice activated recorder to record any conversations with OW and XH.

me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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