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User Topic: quick little update
cayc
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The good news: my xWH has been dis-invited from the big event at my work in 2 weeks time. So YAY! no risk of running into him or having him harass me in any way.

The meh news: I really like TG, the guy I'm dating. But he's got a job offer further away and while at first when we discussed it I was asking him to stay, I'm realizing it's better if he takes it. He's got some financial stuff he needs to clean up that this job will do, and I think his ego is taking a beating over this (his ability to earn and solve his own problems) and it's caused him to be brusque (causing me to be ridiculous in turn) and ... after much reflection, when he and I next speak I'm just going to lay that out. And tell him to take it. It'll mean an LDR for the time being and if it's meant to be, we'll survive it.


BS 45, WH 38
M 8 years, together 10
Real DDay 10/07/11
Too many OW to count.
D final on 6/21/12
You have to walk away from the past in slow motion as it explodes behind you, like in a John Woo movie.

Posts: 2782 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
better4me
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ah....the figuring out of relationship issues...tough stuff. Good that you've gotten some insight!

So glad your other problem went away!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 2825 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
SBB
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Default  Posted: 8:30 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a relief! I'm thrilled for you cayc.

I hope your discussion goes well.


Sending all of the love and strength I can muster to Phoenix1 and her family.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

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