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User Topic: Think it's time for a new address
peridot
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

During the divorce the GAL ordered my XH to supervise his sister any time she is around the kids. Well, he doesn't see them anymore.

I live in a fairly small town. His family also lives here. I think he might as well.

This week is bible school at our church. When I picked the kids up today they told me they seen the aunt and she told them not to tell me about seeing her. Telling the kids to keep things from was just one of a very long list of reasons she isn't allowed around the kids without my XH there.

She told my son at 4 yrs old he could cuss at her house as long as he didn't tell me. At 6 yrs old, she gave him a comic book that had explicit language, cussing and sexual content.

She told the kids she is working at a daycare down the street and she was dropping kids off for bible school.

I am so sick of running into his sick, demented family. The only reason I have stayed here so long is because the kids are in good schools, they have friends here and we like our home but I think it's time to move. We can't even go to church without these people showing up.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's bad. Maybe you're right, maybe it is time to move. Summer's here, this would be the time to do it.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WH does the exact same shit. It's so frustrating.


xBW~ 35
Two of the most darling sons ~ 10 and 7

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh, peridot. Definitely need some space between his family and your kids and you. If they're making that impossible where you are, then it may indeed be time to move.
((((peridot & kids))))


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-Hayley Williams


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, June 24th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My lease isn't up until October. If I move before then I would have to pay for the months still on the lese.

Until then, I am thinking about sending a NC letter to them for me and the kids. I spoke with my police dept and told them what's going on. The officer told me that once I do that and they contact me again I can have harrassment charges filed.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 9:54 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well I didn't see her there this morning. I stayed until the kids went to their classes. I'm going to make sure that I am there a little early to pick them up.

I also spoke with the person over bible school. He told me to get him my decree and see if I can get a picture of her. So they know who she is. She'll be kicked off the church grounds if she shows up. I just hope I still have a picture of her. I gave my XH almost all of the pictures of his family.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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JessicaFL127
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Try fb or photobucket.


BW,32
divorced for 6 years
mom to two awesome boys,10 and 9

"But you said your vows, and you closed the door
On so many men who would have loved you more" -Cath, DCFC

"The most amazing things can come from some terrible lies"


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 11:22 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She doesn't have any social accounts like Facebook. Last I heard she still doesn't have a computer. Think I'll do some searching though. Maybe she uses someone elses phone or computer.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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Snapdragon
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also spoke with the person over bible school. He told me to get him my decree and see if I can get a picture of her.

Huh? As the children's parent you have every right to refuse to allow ANYONE to see your children. You don't have to have legal proof that this has been mandated somewhere.

I guess anyone can come along and say "I'm the aunt of these kids and I'm picking them up today." Uh... no! Just like at schools, they need to be on an approved list or you get a call before they let the children out of their sight for unsupervised time with any adult.


Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.

"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink


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peridot
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Default  Posted: 11:53 AM, June 25th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Huh? As the children's parent you have every right to refuse to allow ANYONE to see your children. You don't have to have legal proof that this has been mandated somewhere.
I guess anyone can come along and say "I'm the aunt of these kids and I'm picking them up today."


She wasn't there this morning for me to point her out. He's wanting a picture so he knows who she is and so he can show the teachers who she is. He doesn't want to give her a chance to go up to the kids. He wants to cut her off before that happens.

The kids meet at the front of the church when we drop them off and pick them up. She just walked up to them yesterday. He's just trying to keep that from happening. I'm staying there though until they go to class and I'm getting there a little earlier to pick them up.

I have the decree where it states she's not supposed to be around them.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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