So I have been working on a modified 180. I think it is really making her head spin. I am mostly doing this to break co-dependancy issues and to gain my confidence back. But its weird I have an internal struggle to give in or be strong and keep on going. Anyone experiance this? I alomost start feeling bad. BUT it is going great so far. Here are some examples of what I have been doing:
MC was coming up. I told her she didn't have to go. If she didn't want to go I am just going to go alone. She got defensive and told me she wanted to go.
I ussually plan a date once a week. I told her I was going to the gym and she responded well looks like its the gym for date night. She was ok with it.
I ussually call her throughout the day. Today I waited for her to reach out to me. I could just hear in her voice she was irritated and frustrated I didn't call.
I still have very deep conversations with her. The first day of 180 she attacked me in bed while I was sleeping (That Never Happens) BUT I don't really want all this to back fire on me. So any insight wold be helpful.