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User Topic: I just want to claw my face!! Actually I want to claw his!!
whensitover
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Default  Posted: 3:01 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WHY IS IT SO HARD TO SUPPORT YOUR KID???I HAVE TO WORK SO HARD TO GET MY EX TO SUPPORT HIS CHILD!! HE IS COURT ORDERED TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT AND HALF OF HER MEDICAL EXPENSES!!! BUT HE HAS YET TO PAY ME HALF OF HER CONTACTS!! I AM SO SICK OF THIS BS WITH HIM. HE HASN'T SEEN HER IN OVER A YEAR. WE LIVE 22 MILES FROM HIM. HIS NEW WIFE HATES MY CHILD AND THEREFORE HE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HER. AND I DO MEAN NOTHING, WHICH HONESTLY, I HATE THAT SHE DOESN'T HAVE THAT RELATIONSHIP BUT I CANNOT STAND EITHER ONE OF THEM (AND I HAVE NEVER, EVER BADMOUTHED HIM TO HER-I DON'T HAVE TO THOUGH, SHE SEES IT HERSELF)SO IT IS NOTHING OFF MY BACK TO NOT HAVE TO SEE THEM! I HAVE SENT THE BILLS TO HIS HOUSE, AND TO HIS OFFICE, BUT NOTHING. I HAVE TEXT HIM, NOTHING, NO REPLY. I DO NOT WANT TO GO BACK TO COURT, I WANT HIM TO JUST MAN UP FOR PETES SAKE!!! YOU DO NOTHING FOR HER, JUST PAY ME WHAT YOU OWE, DO THAT MUCH AT LEAST!! HE HAS NEVER PAID A DIME TOWARD HER CONTACTS-NOT ONE DIME!!

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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You may get more helpful advice over at the Divorce forum, but here's a quick list of things to look into:

1) Find out if your state has a child support enforcement service. This takes the pressure off you considerably and lends some oomph to the communication regarding what he's legally obligated to pay. You tell the service, they go after him. And after him. And after him. He doesn't get to ignore them for long before he loses driver's license and a whole other fun bag of things.

2) Contact your attorney. It's possible that a simple letter saying, "Dear Jackwad, Pay up or say hi to the judge. Signed, Your Worst Legal Nightmare" may be enough to wake him up. The cowards choose silence, and those are usually the same cowards who freak when they get something on official letterhead that indicates the jig is up.


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"Great love requires determination." ~ tryingtwo
"Don't try to win over the haters, you're not the jackass whisperer." ~ Brene Brown

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