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ifinallyfoundme
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Has anyone ever browsed the Don Juan or the Mistress forums. I did out of curiosity and it was all kind of sad really. There are actually men and women on the sites that talk about the downside of cheating and discourage others from doing so.

One of the most compelling site was a mistress who had cheated with an older guy and the pain and loneliness she experienced. Believe me it is not all roses for them. They aren't living exciting invigorated lives.

Of course I wouldn't suggest this type of reading for those who are raw or fresh....and there are those that never learn.However it did give me a new perspective and in many cases affirmed what's said about those that choose to participate.

[This message edited by ifinallyfoundme at 10:38 AM, June 20th (Thursday)]


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RyeBread
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One of the most compelling site was a mistress who had cheated with an older guy and the pain and loneliness she experienced. Believe me it is not all roses for them. They aren't living exciting invigorated lives.

Of course they aren't. They know deep down inside they are broken people who thrive off of chaos. For the most part we choose what kind of life we want and what makes us happy. Is it any real suprise that people who engage in A's aren't truly happy? Not to me.

If you want positive things to happen to you then start doing positive things. A's are the exact oposite of that.


Let him that would move the world first move himself. - Socrates

Posts: 957 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Midwest
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 11:24 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you want positive things to happen to you then start doing positive things.

You know, that's such a simple statement but so profound.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6167 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 12:00 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sought out some OW sites, to get an idea of OW's mental space and all I can say is Fight fire w/fire & all that other clap trap.

It's utterly amazing how utterly delusional alot of these OW are. I've read some things that are just utterly incredulous.

The thing I've noticed in most cases is how much these women demonize the wife, despite all the blather of how they don't.

Interesting window into the world of crazy ...


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd; free of the overgrown baby
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Everything is as it should be.

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