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Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 12:39 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DMW--that is pretty much what he did. No independent third party info like register receipts, e-mail confirms of Internet orders . . . Nada.

And he thinks I am going to accept that? He is nuts.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29667 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey Cat? Are you going to pay DMW?????


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5861 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
Newlease
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Default  Posted: 2:09 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You should let your daughters know that he is going to stop paying if he doesn't get his way.

NL


Even if you can't control the world around you, you are still the master of your own soul.

Posts: 7744 | Registered: Aug 2005
Housefulloflove
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Receipts?! Who needs receipts when your word is a good as gold. It's not like he is the kind of guy to lie, deceive, betray...oh wait....

What an idiot.


Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 7:04 AM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I would love to be in the court when he tries to explain this bullshit to the judge.

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5376 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
amitheow
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Default  Posted: 7:07 AM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel so bad because I know when he follows through your kids are going to hit the roof and blame you.

Sometims I think my H and I should have kids and then I read stuff like this and I remember how my siblings treat my parents and I think um .... I dunno.

I am praying for you Cat. He is crazy!


Old Timer, Just here to help
My screen name is: Am I The Ow? - Not Ami the OW.

Because in my situation I didn't know if I was the OW at first or if I was being cheated on. Found I was being cheated on.


Posts: 5085 | Registered: Jun 2004 | From: Texas
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know and I feel badly for the kids. But if I don't erect and maintain firm boundaries with him, it only escalates. If I give in (which I have no intention of doing), it will continue. If I don't, it will still continue, but at least I will have it on record.

I know he is hiding money.

And the spreadsheet he sent--just a bunch of numbers. No back up documentation such as a bill statement or a cash register receipt. This is why I cannot accept any of this (and the courts will back me up).

My attorney wants us to strategize next week and she said he can set any deadline he wants, but I don't have to adhere to it.

I hate this stuff. It is exhausting.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29667 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now he's pissing his britches because he missed the part about the pay stubs and I am not going to drop the action (duh) until I have everything in my hands. And seeing as how he is leaving for Bermuda tomorrow, this is rich. I know I will pay for it in some way, but right now, I am having an awful lot of fun watching him scramble.

I cannot wait to see what the judge makes of all of this.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29667 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 2:33 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey asshole --

((((Cat))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 25 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 30
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2615 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, June 21st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So now it is time to go dark. I got a nice weekend with the main man coming up, so I don't have time for reindeer games.

Like I said, I know I will pay for it somehow, but it is fun right now.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29667 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
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