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User Topic: I threw DS23 out yesterday
willow60
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((ppga and son))))

Thoughts and prayers for both of you.


Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele

Posts: 960 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Upstate NY
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, October 11th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PPGA, I wish you and your son strength.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7180 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 1:28 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((ppga & DS))))

Keeping you both in my thoughts. Hang in there, I hope he will get the help that he needs.

((((ppga & DS))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2548 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:39 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga)))Sending up a prayer for you and your son right now.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7804 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((ppga)))))

So sorry. Please keep us posted.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21041 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga))) & (((son)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 9991 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
dameia
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Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, October 12th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga & son)))

I am praying for you


Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12

One should rather die than be betrayed. There is no deceit in death. It delivers precisely what it has promised. Betrayal, though ... betrayal is the willful slaughter of hope. ~Steven Deitz


Posts: 1116 | Registered: Jul 2012
Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga and son)))
Sending you strength.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3868 | Registered: Dec 2011
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you guys. Update when you can.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2153 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying for you both.


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1293 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We waited 6 hrs in the ER for him to be seen by psych, then he was told that the wait for Institute of Psychiatry was 4 days. So that meant he would have to wait on the ER for 4 days. He then lied and told them he was not suicidal so he could leave. Once again, total system FAIL.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG!!! NO!!!!

(((PPGA)))


Posts: 11605 | Registered: Mar 2008
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:00 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ppga - I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. For what little good it does, please know that I am holding you and your son in my thoughts at all times. ((((((hugs))))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25059 | Registered: Aug 2011
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're in the lowcountry, right? Can you take him to Charlotte?

Posts: 11605 | Registered: Mar 2008
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, October 13th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((PPGA,son,family))))


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9694 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is home with me now. I simply could not put him back on the street in his condition.

So, the cycle begins again.

I just saw this. It is heartbreaking, and so so similar to our experience with the mental health system. A must read for everyone. God rest his tormented soul.


Subject: 'MasterChef's' Josh Marks loses 'battle of his life,' commits suicide - CNN.com

http://www.cnn.com/2013/10/13/showbiz/masterchef-joshua-marks-suicide/index.html?hpt=hp_t3


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 3:54 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG ppga (((ppga))) - I don't have words, just hugs. I'm so sorry.


FWW - 41
I'm big on personal responsibility. Own your shit. ALL OF IT.

Posts: 5846 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: So Cal.....
sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 4:07 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga)))

Continued prayers for you and your family. The cycle is brutal and the system broken.

with wished for a better tomorrow-

sunandmoon


Posts: 1634 | Registered: Mar 2006
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 6:15 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I saw that, ppga.

Seriously, can you get your son to NC, where he has a better chance of being admitted right away?? If he needs to stay in state, how about the upstate?


Posts: 11605 | Registered: Mar 2008
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, October 14th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((PPGA)))))))) ((((((((DS))))))))


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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