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User Topic: I threw DS23 out yesterday
hexed
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Default  Posted: 8:06 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PPGA))))

we are all here when you're ready. i'm sorry it didn't go well. continued prayers and good thoughts for all of you.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending strength, good thoughts, prayers, hugs, and hope.

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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You have been in my thoughts and prayers, PPGA. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. It must be so very hard to not be able to help your child. I know there's nothing we can do, but I so wish there was. (((PPGA)))


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7213 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((ppga & family))))) Sending you strength and comfort, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh HFSSC, I appreciate you asking for prayers for us. Not overstepping at all.

So here's a brief synopsis I sent out to friends and family yesterday of what went down yesterday morning...another massive system failure.
******************************************
I'm typing this from a rest stop off I-95 where I stopped to cry and take a klonopin.

For those of you that don't know, after 2 months of waiting, DS23 finally got the call on Friday that a spot had opened up at the XXX rehab in XYZ.

We were there bright and early this morning, full of hope for a better tomorrow. Even though he was there for help, and had a good attitude, things went very very wrong, and they refused DS admittance. Things went from bad to worse, and it was almost as bad as the horrible scene at ABC Mental Health clinic 2 yrs ago. I was able to calm him enough so that they didn't call the police, but it came very very close.

I simply could not cope, and I left DS at a bus station in XYZ to get back home on his own, since I had already planned to go on to (different city) today, and then on to the farm from there.

I have no idea how DS will get back to where his truck is, his phone battery was dying, so he may not even be able to call anyone.

F**K IT ALL!!!!!!!


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((ppga))))


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25343 | Registered: Aug 2011
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WTH?

I'm so sorry, ppga.

So very sorry.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21051 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Tred
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PPGA,

That is horrible. I am so sorry to hear he didn't get admitted.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3929 | Registered: Dec 2011
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 10:32 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I will provide a better explanation of what happened when I can find the time to write it all out.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7056 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 11:59 AM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((ppga, DS, family)))) So sorry about the current setback. My heart breaks for you and DS.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9716 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 12:37 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no!!! ((((ppga, DS, family))))

I'm so sorry the shit has hit the fan, I am thinking of you all and sending STRENGTH, positive thoughts and tons of MOJO your way. I hope this can get straightened out, and that he will be able to get the help he needs.

((((ppga & DS))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
Limbo-ish, again (after multiple S) -- weighing my options

Posts: 2587 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((ppga, DS, family)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10083 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((ppga)) I'm so sorry you are going through this


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21116 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What???

I know you're doing everything you can, (((ppga))). Is there a group familiar with these types of trials and tribulations that can help advocate for him??


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PPGA)))


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry, ppga. What a roller-coaster this is for you.
{{{hugs}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8005 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 10:39 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry ((((ppga))))

Praying for DS


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1296 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
click4it
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Default  Posted: 10:55 PM, August 20th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh my....so sorry. My heart goes out to you. ((((hugs))))))


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and your family are in my prayers. Sending strength, mojo, light, love-whatever you need to you.

Hugs
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5083 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
JanetS
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Default  Posted: 8:34 PM, August 21st (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A big hug goes out to you from Canada. I'm so so sorry. I hope you find your answer, soon. Can you contact somebody in government and see if you can set a fire under somebody's ass?

Posts: 2576 | Registered: Nov 2003 | From: Niagara-on-the-Lake, Canada
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