Topic: my beloved eva
Member # 32919
| Posted: 11:57 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a beloved companion is horrible and painful.
Me - BS 50
Him - WS 49
SOW - 52 destitute loser
Posts: 575 | Registered: Jul 2011
Member # 38370
| Posted: 12:07 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
Such a tragic loss.
((((LH, OktoberMest, Eva))))
ME: 41 - Madhatter, 2 PAs, 1997, 2003
Him: 35 - Madhatter, 2 PAs, 2004, 3/2012 - 3/2014
Status: Living Apart
Posts: 200 | Registered: Feb 2013
Member # 27879
| Posted: 1:11 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
I'm so sorry for your & OkM's loss. It's NEVER "just a cat." My heart goes out to you both.
Me: XWS, 30s, 5-month EA/PA in '09-'10
Husband: XBS, 40s
Married 2.5 years
Reconciled and remarried.
Posts: 2136 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: the cat's meow
Member # 31722
| Posted: 2:39 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
I am so sorry for your loss ((LH)) and ((OkM))
Like children, pets just seem to slide into our lives, and we wonder what we did before they arrived.
She is beautiful.
My DD's wonderful cat was hit by a car, in front of our house, and my DS is the one who had to put her out of her misery. (we were out of town). It takes an amazing person to be able to do that.
LH, you are an amazing person.
Posts: 1284 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
Member # 33982
| Posted: 2:41 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
No words, just hugs.
Together 16 years, Married 13
BS (me; 32)
fWS (wtsmm; 32) 2 1/2 yr LTA
2 children, 11 and 5
DD #1 9/27/2011 (EA/Sexting)
DD #2 10/3/2011 (Some PA)
DD #3 11/28/2011 (Full Disclosure)
Posts: 223 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Northern Illinois
Member # 31240
| Posted: 4:27 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
I knew what you had written from the title, but my first reaction when I opened it up was, WHAT A BEAUTIFUL CAT! What a beautiful cat.
I'm so sorry for the loss of her life. She looks like she had a lot more life left.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
No humane person will say or think 'just a cat'. She's a terrible loss for you.
I'm very glad you were together for a time, though.
fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.
Posts: 10076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Member # 31349
| Posted: 4:43 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
I'm so so very sorry.
We have an unknown number of days in this life - all of us.
You showed your sweet Eva so much love and comfort in her time here. That's all anyone can ask.
I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown
Posts: 17318 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 24924
| Posted: 4:51 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
I'm so sorry!
Walk a Mile In My Shoes
Married 14 yrs. Now Separated & in NC
2 grown DD's - his from previous M
4 grown kids (2DS, 2DD) mine from previous M
Posts: 3020 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Ohio
Member # 35812
| Posted: 5:19 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
I am so very, very sorry. Please accept my sincerest condolences. What a beautiful lady, she was! I'm very fond of meesers, purebreds and happy coincidences.
They really ask for so little, don't they? For a bit of food, some water, an occasional litter pan policing, they amuse you, purr in your lap, deposit dead critters in your shoes, and let you dampen their coats with your tears. They are a blessing while they are with us and too soon gone.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
Posts: 4804 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
Member # 22870
| Posted: 7:21 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Posts: 7646 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 27871
| Posted: 9:48 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
So sorry for your loss. Grateful for the time you had together.
Him:53 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
Posts: 762 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
Member # 6449
| Posted: 10:21 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
Eva was beautiful, I am sorry for your loss. I picked my beloved little Chihuahua from the road five years ago after he was run over, right in front of me. It still haunts me... Again, I'm sorry for your loss.
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
Posts: 9716 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
Member # 37577
| Posted: 11:01 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013|
I am so sorry for your loss. It's so sad when we lose a precious pet and member of the family. Take care of you.
Me: 43...so betrayed.
Him: WH 46...multiple ONS, in therapy. A work in progress.
D-Months: Nov & Dec 2012. TT.
Married 4 years, together 5.
One beautiful amazing daughter, 15 mos
Posts: 94 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Land of the lost
Member # 17406
| Posted: 8:35 AM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013|
So sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is so very hard. I understand the comfort a pet can bring when going through the pains of infidelity. My beloved Donner was my source of comfort.
I think that Eva and Donner are playing over the Rainbow Bridge together.
Dday #1 6/20/07, Dday #2 (different OW) 5/16/09
3 DDs (14, 9, 7)
Posts: 482 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Canada
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