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Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:39 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In my spare time, I'm a folk musician - don't worry, I still have my day job. Since I'm a songwriter, I tend to write about whatever is going on in my life. Can you see where this is going?

I wrote a song about my history with the Princess, called Blind Stupid Love. It made her seem quite ridiculous. A friend had challenged me to write a song with the word "barnacle" in it, so the chorus said how she had "lips like a barnacle's arse, and skin like a lobster's taint".

I played this at an open stage last night, and recorded it as well. I always put these recordings up on an audio sharing site so that my family can hear what I'm up to. This site has a feature that it can post to facebook what you've listened to. My brother had just turned this feature on.

Luckily, I just happened to be on facebook minutes after it announced that he had listened to this, and gave a link for others to do the same. Normally, I would be happy for the exposure, but I'm still trying to keep the separation/divorce friendly, and the Princess is still facebook friends with all my family.

Texted my brother to let him know the situation. He deleted it in seconds.

I think we dodged that bullet. It's probably best if the Princess doesn't hear the song that ridicules her - at least not until we're divorced!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, probably a good idea to wait until after the divorce. I'm waiting for the divorce to be final so I can post this song on Facebook:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=my7sxZ0KfHU


xBW~ 35
Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

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Take2
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMgosh BG - such a catch tune!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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Ann124
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want that song as a ringtone!!!

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 4:13 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Who me?

Hee, hee. Just another gem I have SI to thank for..

Maybe you'll be tempted to give us the link to your songs one day Pass? I've seen you mention your music quite a few times, and I would love to hear it some time! I must say I've never heard of a song that spoke of lips like a barnacle's arse and skin like a lobster's taint, and I'd love to broaden my musical horizons


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Two DS~ 7-Eleven
"I've wiped the shit off. It can be wiped off you know." ~ asurvivor

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Griefstricken25
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Default  Posted: 8:19 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ButterflyGirl - Best. Song. Ever.


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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:23 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the snicker, "barnical lips", I love it!

I started writing poems again and feel the same way about posting them anywhere. FB was ruined for me by Perv and OW, but I know what you mean about waiting.

I do some composing too, but it's piano based...I love folk music and playing it, as well!

Music's also a terrific outlet, isn't it?

I am a church musician and one of the hymns I like the tune of is about guilt. At the beginning of being abandoned by Perv, I put it on FB as a poem, but I removed it pretty quickly, too. It talked about guilt and a man who walks alone and was quite fitting.

Yep, thank you for the chuckle, Pass, I'll think of your song and barnicles when sponge bob comes on again, too!


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


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Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:25 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was once challenged by a relative to write a poem with the word "dingle berries", as the things that get stuck in her dog's fur after being in the woods!

So I'll add that to your list of challenge words.


Ashland 13

You gave me nothing and now it's all I've got - Bono

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BG, that was so hilarious!

pass... we need to hear that song. Any song that uses arse is simply excellent.


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Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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Pass
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll put it up on an anonymous account on soundcloud, and then post it here. Gotta admit, I'm pretty proud of this song!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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