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User Topic: 30th Anniversary today
forgivingnow
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are celebrating our 30th anniversary today, 30 years of a REAL marriage and with total committment on both our parts we are at a place where the love & passion for each other is beyond what we thought we could feel. It's amazing when you both put each other first, try to be the best version of yourself and make only decisions that are the best for your relationship what you can feel.

I came home today to a vase of 30 red roses on my porch. One for each year of our marriage, not just the good or faithful years, for all the years that led us to where we are today.

I want to say thank you to everyone here on SI who answered me with compassion and knowledge after my 2nd dday in October of 2011 when all the truth came out and I asked if anyone had survived this type of infidelity. I really thought I should leave then. I'm so thankful for all the support here that I have had on my journey and it has so worth it to work thru the pain to get to where I am today.

I love my husband and I am very grateful for what we have.

edited for spelling

[This message edited by forgivingnow at 1:37 PM, June 18th (Tuesday)]


Me-BS 51
FWH-51
M 31 yrs.
Dday 3-19-11, TT 10/2011, Full truth July 2013
Strength comes from within. You can't get it from someone or go somewhere to get it. It is already here, waiting to be used when you need it most. Believe in yourself.
R

Posts: 596 | Registered: Oct 2011
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwww! What a wonderful post!

Happy Anniversary!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 36526 | Registered: Sep 2007
sportsfan
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Member # 9918
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats to you, forgivingnow - here's to your courage, hard work and not giving up!

Posts: 1928 | Registered: Feb 2006 | From: PA
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 1:42 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..as Tony the Tiger would say....

GGGGrrrreeeeaaaaatttttt!

..you can't miss with roses!

>>>glad everything is so positive.

Congrats on your 30 year milestone.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
Blameitontherain
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Default  Posted: 1:46 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!

It is always good to hear of people going through it and coming out the other side positive like you. Enjoy the day!


Posts: 273 | Registered: Nov 2012
Lucky
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


Posts: 36162 | Registered: Apr 2005
brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 9:52 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary. It feels good doesn't it. We celebrated our 30th anniversary a few weeks ago. Great job!


Me-50 BS
Him 57-WS
Married 30 yrs, together 33
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1531 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 10:06 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

{{{forgivingnow}}} Congrats, honey!


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7680 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
SoVerySadNow
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Default  Posted: 10:20 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1280 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, June 18th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary!

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HardenMyHeart
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Default  Posted: 3:08 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Anniversary!


Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 29 years, Happily Reconciled

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refuz2bavictim
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Default  Posted: 6:25 AM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


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