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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, June 19th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I have more:

Went through DD dad's phone and found a bunch of "self portraits" of his south of the border regions. He told me that he took the pictures before and after he lost weight to compare his dick size.

DD's dad had an ex (his main ow) that hadn't been with him in 2 years when he and I met, but prior to that, they lived together for 3 years and she bought a car in his name. He told me they needed to meet once a month so she could give him a check for the car. I asked why she couldn't just mail it, and he insisted that he hated the post office. One time in our early relationship, I went to his house and noticed that all the pictures of us that were in his room were hidden in drawers and such (one was an u/s picture). I asked him why, and he got all sketchy saying that his ex came over to make a car payment. I asked what that has anything to do with his room, and he said that she came in the house and wouldn't stop talking. I just believed him- it wasn't until afterwards that I realized his excuse didn't even add up. He would have to have hid pictures BEFORE she came over, which means he PLANNED for her to go into his bedroom.

I caught him texting some girl from work and asked him what he was talking to her about- he told me she is a recovering alcoholic and every month she is sober, he texts her to congratulate her. I thought he was SO sweet. *rolls eyes*

With current fiance:

He accused me of cheating on him/planning to leave him

He kept insisting that I have early mornings, and kept telling me to go to bed earlier than him (so he could stay up late and peruse CL)

He was very protective of his phone.

Whenever we had sex, he ALWAYS smelled like he had taken care of himself earlier. Well, turns out he DID do that...and then was too tired to finish with me.

I have been cheated on by 3 different men, and I have more DDays than anyone ever should. I am here, just trying to pickup the pieces.

At least the current man "only" cyber-cheated.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry."

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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The most obvious sign before getting married that I ignored: The history of divorce on his mother and father's side due to infidelity (grandparents,parents, aunts, uncles,cousins, etc)...several generations. That should have told me to stay away.

Me: BS 29
Him: WS 29
No Kids
DDay: 1/18/12 - my bday
Still in limbo. Ho-worker still lurks.

Together 6 years, married 2 almost 3
EA, turned PA??
"There are 7 billion people on this planet living happily without you. I can be one of those

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