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User Topic: Happy Father's Day SI WH's
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 8:25 AM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today of all days, I hope you can find a way to enjoy some time with your family.

We all screwed up, but we are all capable of making things different and better. I know that will look different for each of us.

Do what you can.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 8:48 AM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have so much respect for the WHs on here who are owning their stuff and working every day to become better men.

Enjoy your day and take pride in knowing that you are becoming the men that you were meant to be.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37643 | Registered: Sep 2007
BaxtersBFF
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Default  Posted: 12:20 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Adding to this rather than starting a new thread...

Not long after d-day, gerrygirl found this song. I think she felt it was from her perspective as a new BW. I think though that this can be a WS song too, if you're at the right stage.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sy0fIyongdI

If you're looking for a way to reconnect with your BS, maybe try just sitting down and listening to this one together.


WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
uncertainone
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wishing all SI WH dads, and all dads, peace, healing, joy.

I'm sure there's a Wheeler Dealer marathon on somewhere (I just love that show).


Me: 37

'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth


Posts: 6795 | Registered: Mar 2010
KBeguile
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DS and I had a mini-Mythbusters marathon before I got the best Father's Day present ever.


Me: fWS 32
Her: BS 35 (HeartInADustpan)
DS: 4yo
M: 7 years
DDays: 2012/11/14, 2013/02/05, 2013/03/09
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"Everything that happens now is happening 'now.'"
"What happened to 'then'?"
"We passed 'then.'"

Posts: 797 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 3:33 PM, June 16th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy Father's Day!!


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1256 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, June 20th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry I missed this thread!

I'm really proud of the FWH's here doing their best to put their family back together. It's not easy at all - and it's very honorable work.

I hope everyone had a good weekend.


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17374 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
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