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User Topic: SO popped the question
little turtle
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Happy  Posted: 4:40 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

and I said yes.

We've been talking about weddings since the beginning our relationship over 2 years ago... and talking about our wedding for at least the past year (I've been planning ). He always used the excuse that I needed to get my annulment done. That was granted in the beginning of May. So the ball has since been in his court and I've been waiting.... turns out he went and got a ring a couple of weeks after my annulment was finished, asked my dad if he could marry me, and waited another couple of weeks before finally asking me!! Everyone knew it was coming and that he had a ring... except me! Well, not everyone, but it feels that way. lol. My immediate family and bff knew for weeks.

He tried to trick me with an empty ring box sitting on the dryer, but I pretended that I didn't see it sitting there. He ran downstairs almost immediately after I went down to get clothes out of the dryer. I would have peeked in the box if he wasn't there. Since I ruined his plan by ignoring the box, he "found" the real ring box in the dryer and proposed. Now I will never do laundry without thinking of him.

I had to get the ring sized and they said it will take 5 days. Ugh. SO had the ring all of this time and now I still have to wait to wear it!!!


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cass
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Default  Posted: 4:47 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

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Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 4:50 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!!!

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Crescita
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!! Also that is a very sweet proposal story.

Posts: 3388 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
click4it
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Default  Posted: 4:54 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats!


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

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booger bear
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Cool  Posted: 5:34 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18779 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK - Hot as hell here !!!!!!
foxglove
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!

I'm so happy for you.


Me (BS)47
XH (WS)53
Married 21 years
Divorced 2/19/07
Two sons 21 and 23 in college

Posts: 1453 | Registered: Nov 2008 | From: Northern Michigan
million pieces
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1246 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 7:34 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

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Posts: 6443 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!!!

Maybe you can get married during the g2g.


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Posts: 52199 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
phmh
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

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Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!!

SO had plenty of time to get that ring sized.

Best wishes to both of you!


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Posts: 3415 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do Moo and I get to help plan the wedding?


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations... so when is the wedding?


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
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Posts: 5090 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 9:01 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

congratulations


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 470 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mazel tov!


You can call me NIK

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-Hayley Williams


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inconnu
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

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Like you're less than, less than perfect


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hexed
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Default  Posted: 1:01 AM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So happy for you!!!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 1:15 AM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


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