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User Topic: Betrayed Men - Part 11
noescape
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

woohoo

oh, and btw...

My recent foray into sweetness apologized. I think I'm giving Mocha Ma'am - MM! - time...more time.
I'm okay with it, being slow and steady.

i must admit my first (selfish) reaction was "woohoo" too, since we can still benefit from your wisdomz. OTOH, I feel for you but hey, protect yourself and be happy. remember the bit about "you walked fine without a crutch" so take it slow and be happy you got an early answer. i felt a bit of loss when you mentioned "filled my eyes"-beautifully poetic but (yet) a feeling of loss.

it'll come when it does and you too shall enter a new phase with us all cheering you on.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhat-xUQ6dw


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WhiskeyRiver
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Default  Posted: 10:01 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you dont need to be someones Option.

Just B your own plan A.

Ya, I don't know what to say. Y'all have this down. I've come to the right place.


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jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:14 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Silent lucidity. Thank you for for that! I had never heard those words together, i wish I had wrote them
found them described them, though there's similar music in my brain.
It speaks to me.

i find my nose runnnin, and throat dammit graspin wantin to trump you with this.
It started out as a feeling,
& it grew into a hope.

This. Breaks me, & why i don't lissen to music.
I'ma gonna trump you anyways.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNsQewlFtEs

These things break me.
I refuse to remain broken, no matter the tears the running wet cheeks fuck me.


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5454real
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sorry you're here JJ. just wanted to let you know I hear the suffering in your voice. I'm sending you strength from afar.

it isn't the music brother, sometimes it's the instrument.

strength}}}


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 10:42 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The instrument is truth.
The truth zither.
Thank you my brother my brothers. Took a lot for you to even say that.
I pray, exhaling though it be my last breath exhaling, for you..

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 10:45 PM, July 19th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We're going to need a lot of beer!

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:33 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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noescape
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Default  Posted: 8:53 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


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noescape
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful lyrics jj, just beautiful.

Oh heck, when its beers and tears I have to throw this in

http://youtu.be/BMfzPbONyVA


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noescape
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Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DP

[This message edited by noescape at 9:06 AM, July 20th (Saturday)]


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Later
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Default  Posted: 11:52 AM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DP

QFT.

I hope you guys have a great weekend.


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stilllovingher
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DP
QFT

PBRmeASAP???


The only difference between a butt kisser and a brown noser is depth perception.
I'm sure WAL would agree.

Posts: 2380 | Registered: Oct 2010 | From: still BFE, but now BFE, CA
noescape
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DP=double posted, now tell me what your acronyms stand for you jokers. Enjoy the weekend.

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:13 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pabst Blue Ribbon me as soon as possible. WTF is QFT?

going to have a great weekend you guys all enjoy!


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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Later
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Default  Posted: 11:45 PM, July 20th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

QFT, quoted for truth. I felt the need to confirm that, in fact, a double post had occurred ITT.

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gotcha. Thanks!


BH 50, WW 41
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 19(Hers),DS 8 Ours, DGS 2 1/2
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2057 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Tred
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Default  Posted: 6:01 AM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PBR? Really? In that case, give me a Strohs . And QFT, ITT? Too many TLA's.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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noescape
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Default  Posted: 7:44 AM, July 21st (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Army guys and IT geeks, anyone else we missing?

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Later
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Default  Posted: 10:28 AM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damn, I killed the thread with the reckless use of abbreviations.

Question, what are your thoughts on the WW referring to the A as a "mistake"?

My deepest, most innermost thoughts are that it pisses me off.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, July 22nd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

what are your thoughts on the WW referring to the A as a "mistake"?

This gets debated to death every now and then in General or Wayward. Personally, I view an A as a choice - not a mistake. Some will argue semantically that it is a bad mistake, but this isn't a court of law, and I don't give a shit about semantics. Forgetting to pick up something at the grocery store is a mistake, signing up on a cheating web site and blowing a stranger for 17 months is a choice. That's my frame of reference. Letting hundreds to thousands of men think that you are theirs for the asking is a choice. Advertising yourself as a free sex toy for any man that is good looking enough and a decent liar is a choice. Risking your families health, emotional well being, physical well being, and financial well being is a choice.


Married: 16 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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