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jk5366
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Frustrated  Posted: 2:02 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's been a while since I've been on here. Got busy I guess. We've started working 10 hour days at work for the summer, so then we get our Friday's off. It's nice, but also makes for LONG days.
As for "us"... ya... he's been hanging out with her again. he doesn't know I know that he went up to her place a couple weeks ago and they went to Cabella's for a bit. I knew he was going to Cabella's. He told me that much. How do I know? I checked his phone when he was napping one day. Wow...
NOW - today he called me and he's putting in his 2 weeks notice at where he works (where she works too). In short, they expect miracles out of him, extra long hours away from home, called at all hours of the day/night, even when he's at an event to celebrate our daughter's excellent behavior in school all year long. I've got mixed feelings about this latest decision. Especially since during our conversation he said it's hard to work on a marriage when he's never home.
I don't know... I just needed to "vent" and share. Thank you for listening.


This sucks.

Posts: 30 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: MI
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((jk)))))

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Default  Posted: 3:24 PM, July 15th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

he said it's hard to work on a marriage when he's never home.

No, it's impossible to work on a marriage when you're actively involved in an affair.

jk5366, he's shown you who he is .... are you listening?


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