Your OW sounds certifiable. But this made me LOL:
I don't worry about him as much as I worry about her showing up at my door wearing adult diapers and a hand gun.
Although, in all truthfulness it's not really funny, it's scary. It's very encouraging that your FWH is physically ill at the thought of her now.
Sounds like my WH, who's pretty mortified that he carried on with OW at all. She's not smart enough to be a bunny boiler.
Actually, she's not smart enough to have enough money to get herself lunch. I'm not kidding. Her sister had to bring money to her at her hotel while on vacation so she and her husband could eat. Yeah, they didn't factor that in to the whole vacation expense thing... and she has 2 kids... I weep for the future.
Her sister had to bring money to her at her hotel while on vacation so she and her husband could eat. Yeah, they didn't factor that in to the whole vacation expense thing...
This OW isn't stupid so much as she is delusional. But that is just nuts about the $$.
If you haven't done this yet- I would say try to do it soon- so you can NIP THIS SHIT IN THE BUD NOW. Don't let it drag on and on.. she will just keep popping up. It's essential for the recovery of your rela and YOUR peace of mind.
Draw the line and make it 100% clear to her.. coming from BOTH of you...!
Is he really committed to this?
I have never seen him committed to anything the way he is committed to his recovery. He still makes mistakes, mostly in communication, but he's trying and learning.
There have been numerous NC letters sent. But when you're dealing with someone that's delusional, they really don't matter other than evidence that we tried to be civil.