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User Topic: Divorce Is Friday
strawblond30
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

June 14th his 40th bday . Many tears lately , I want to move on but it won't be till he moves out and he probabably hanging around prolonging his move . Anyone else divorce and they didnt move out right away ?


Me 39, EX H 40 married 17 years infidelity on both parts . He a serial cheater. I cheated for revenge and ran home to brag. Or make Him mad. He confessed to more affairs after that. We are now divorced living apart . 3 children

Posts: 892 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: illinois
Lola2kids
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Default  Posted: 8:03 AM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs.
Him moving out will give you some peace for sure. In house separation is hell.

Is there something in your agreement that will make him move out of the house?
He needs to go. I hope for your sake it's sooner rather than later.


BS: (Me) 47
Kids: twins DD(9)
WS: Him 49 (X...together 12 years)
D-Day April 18, 2011, he moved out Sept. 11, 2011...
They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder
I'm finding that I am growing more and more fond of his absence.

Posts: 1223 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: Ontario, Canada
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, June 15th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are moving through the divorce process, but much of his stuff is still at home.

He flip flops. When I mention coming to get the rest (non clothes and it's a lot), he makes excuses.

Then he asks for something and seems to want it only on his terms.

I couldn't handle him physically living here, though. I give you credit for tolerating that!

Maybe he's not secure in a place to go or secure in the decision to go? Maybe he thinks you'll tire of waiting and you'll go and he'll get the place?


Ashland 13

The only thing that stays the same, is change. -M. Etheridge


Posts: 1955 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
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