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User Topic: I promise, it does gets better.
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm 7 months out and today I drove to work (1 1/2 hours) and thought it doesn't hurt AS MUCH anymore...

Just wanted to share some insight. The SI vets here always tell me TIME will heal the wounds. And, it really does...As crazy and incredibly hurt as you are right now. I remember lying on my bed at my parents house with smeared mascara, a newborn and a toddler on each arm thinking this is the most incredible pain a human being can possibly endure. It hurts more than childbirth. Remember, we all feel your pain. Post and read, it helps tremendously. Good luck everyone on this journey of life.

[This message edited by libertyrocks at 9:33 AM, June 11th (Tuesday)]

Me-BW 36. STBXH-35,Recovering Alcoholic, M6yrs T13. Boys 2 & 4 1/2.
DDay #1 Nov,2012. 1 1/2 year false R & TT. 10 OW PA's 1LTA (W lied to) 3 years.
S Nov, 2013 again Jan,2014
Filed for D Feb,2014.

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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((libertyrocks))))) that was very sweet of you to write to our newbee's here

I wish you the best and lots of wonderful times ahead.

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Content  Posted: 3:12 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you so much for the words of hope. 4 months here, and as it has gotten easier to deal with, it is nice to know that this is not "as good as it gets".

"Son, you've got the future- shining like a piece of gold, but I swear as we get closer- it looks more like a lump of coal"

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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear Liberty

You are on your way dear friend. You are on your way. Thanks for sharing.

Sending hugs your way.


"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope so, because this is unbearable. Glad you are ding better.

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