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User Topic: I'm not a nice person anymore..
lilflower1000
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I too find myself being angry. I also almost never cussed before the affair,but now I do all the time. I also find myself being grumpy with the kids and my coworkers. It is amazing how this affects every part of your life.
Sorry you are feeling this way.


lilflower1000
Me: 44 BS
Married 12 yrs
Dday:8/1/2012
True R: 12/2012
4kids(11, 8, 5, 4mos)+ 2 Step kids I love like my own

Posts: 308 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Georgia
lilflower1000
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending random cards is a great idea. I think it is a good idea to concentrate on others to take the focus off of our pain. I may try something like that as well.


lilflower1000
Me: 44 BS
Married 12 yrs
Dday:8/1/2012
True R: 12/2012
4kids(11, 8, 5, 4mos)+ 2 Step kids I love like my own

Posts: 308 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Georgia
crazyblindsided
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, June 13th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am no where near who I was pre-A. I used to be happy no matter what, now I live with his A every day. It's exhausting and I'm tired of feeling this way. I don't understand how I can love him one moment and want to smash his face the next. I am still a nice person to others, I try to be nice to WH, but when I see ANY of his Wayward, PA or Narcissistic behaviors I tend to not be such a nice person.

[This message edited by crazyblindsided at 3:51 PM, June 13th (Thursday)]


BS/FWS (me):40 Madhatter
WS/BS:42 Serial Cheater
Together 18 years, Married 13
DD(10) DS(7)
DDay(s) 5/08, 5/09, 3/30/12
Final Dday 7/11/14 Affair never ended

Posts: 2266 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: California
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, June 14th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

41&Faithful, that is a really cool idea! I've got a friend who is very ill and the past couple of months I have been too wrapped up in my own pain to help care for her the way in which I would like. I'm going to make brightening her days a priority.


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

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