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User Topic: im not a model
Getting to Happy
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

that's one win I got over her..

Your not the winner, YOUR THE PRIZE!!!

Never forget that!

Oh yeah and~
FTB!!!


WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown


Posts: 1138 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: La La Land
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I used to be a high school cheerleader. I may not be a model but im a damn good mommy and wife

[This message edited by jo2love at 4:41 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)]


me 32
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
pewpewpew
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Default  Posted: 4:00 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. I'm so sorry he said that.
However - no matter how attractive an AP may be - WHO cheats with a married spouse?!
Really. People that feel the need to cheat with a married spouse are disgusting. They are broken. Anyone that could destroy a family/marriage has issues.


ME: 30
WH: 35

Fool me once - Shame on you. Fool me twice - pack your shit and get out.


Posts: 308 | Registered: Jan 2013
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know exactly .. im glad im not the only one that thinks this way


me 32
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 4:21 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh sweetie, you are cute as a button, and your H just doesn't have any tact. (He probably didn't have a clue how hurtful that comment was...some guys are, well, STUPID, but I really don't think he said it to hurt you).

(You may want to remove your name from your post...it's not safe to post personal info that can identify you sweetie).

Stay strong, you are doing fine.

Peace,
PPGA


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7021 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you painpaingoaway that was nice of you


me 32
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
Kalliopeia
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Default  Posted: 4:36 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

huh, I looked at your pic. and there is your husband. point of fact: he doesn't actually LOOK like a dumass

Posts: 478 | Registered: Mar 2012
cds22
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What?!? Why would he share this with you? This sounds to me like a man trying to jack up his self esteem (among other things) on the "model" he is involved with. It also sounds like he was "defending" her which must feel awful.


Posts: 224 | Registered: Apr 2013
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yeah it made me feel that I was the ugliest person in the world but you know what ... im better then this ... when I look hot he knows when he messed up


me 32
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
circe
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh gosh, people in affairs can be so freaking gullible. She "used to be a model" is like a gawky 15 year old boy having a "girlfriend in Canada". Of course it's possible that she modeled for Puppy Chow or something. And now she's reduced to scraping the companionship barrel for other women's husbands. That's just how awesome she is.

I know the real problem is that your WH defended her, which totally sucks. But I agree that he's defensive for himself, as if his choice of the Puppy Chow model somehow reflected well on him? Pfft. He has a beautiful wife and 5 beautiful children - THAT reflects well on him. His choice of self-destruction is only slightly different shades of fucked up.


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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your children are gorgeous. You are beautiful. And your H is an ignorant jackhole with his head up his ass. I am so sorry that you had to hear him say that.

But I'll agree with everyone else... if he admits she is ugly (or not BEAUTIFUL) then there is something wrong with him. (I mean, other than being a broken, ignorant jackhole with his head up his ass) She had to be "all that" to make it worth blowing up your life and destroying his family over.

I pray that soon, he will get his head out of his ass and realize where the true beauty is.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2660 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
brokensunflower
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

thank you HFSSC


me 32
him 32
5 wonderful kids 12 yrs 8 yrs 5 yrs 4 yrs and 2 yrs ..and new baby
married 10 years together for 12 yrs
working on R

my give a damn is busted


Posts: 210 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: cold ohio
married2stranger
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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would also like to point out that Layne Bryant has models in their catalogs too! Just bc they "used to be a model" does not = they are attractive!

Nobody would want to see the same Layne Bryant models in the Victoria Secret catalog.

Also, my niece won a Beauty Pageant (baby pageant) when she was 9mo. old, now that she is 14 I would not think she will be winning any beauty pageants now (I know that sounds mean and I am just trying to make an analogy...and my nieces are all gorgeous)

KWIM??

[This message edited by married2stranger at 11:29 PM, June 11th (Tuesday)]


D-Day - 10/22/2011
Married 5/29/2004 together 13years!

(Me)"I've been called worse"....
(WH)"Oh yeah, like what?"
(Me)"YOUR wife!!!"


Posts: 135 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Limbo Land
CatchyUsername
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Default  Posted: 3:40 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This sounds just like a stupid defensive comment to me. And it trivializes the situation. Actually, you may have brought it down there with commenting that she was ugly. (trivial - who really cares - model or toad he should not have stuck his dick in her) and he stayed at trivial with "she was a model." Pulease.

You are amazing. I love what getting to happy said: Your not the winner, YOUR THE PRIZE!!!


Posts: 191 | Registered: Jun 2013
millienotboo
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Default  Posted: 7:11 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Next time just ask him what the hell a model would want with him....


M-8 yrs together 11
Me-45 BW
Him-49-WH
D-Day 10-10-2008
In R

Posts: 754 | Registered: Jan 2009 | From: South
callmecrazy
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So...obviously his ego still cant be bruised if he cant be caught sleeping with an ugly girl...jerk. He just put his ego before you, he should have no ego left at this point.

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JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 7:35 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would also like to point out that Layne Bryant has models in their catalogs too! Just bc they "used to be a model" does not = they are attractive!
Nobody would want to see the same Layne Bryant models in the Victoria Secret catalog.

t/j - just because they aren't size zero doesn't mean they're not gorgeous.

broken I'm glad you took your name out of the post. That alarmed me. But I saw your pic and you are lovely.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6564 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
jjct
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Default  Posted: 7:49 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't see a name or pic, but his name is Stu Pedaso.

Ask him later, "Does this knife in my back make my butt look big?"
Stu. Definitely.


Posts: 6428 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
uniquenewyork
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A model what? Homewrecker? Tramp?
...


Me(BS): 44/Her(WS): 43
S:11,D:8,D:6
Affair with OM#1 before we were married.
Couple day fling w/ OM#2
Me as a WS: late '07-early '08.
EA/PA with OM#3: 2/16/09 (many D-days after, broken NC.)
EA/PA with OM#4: Found September '10; PA

Posts: 198 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Wisconsin
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, June 12th (Wednesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nobody would want to see the same Layne Bryant models in the Victoria Secret catalog.

t/j - I'm confused. What does being a Lane Bryant model have to do with being attractive or not? I think they're very pretty.

end t/j


Brokensunflower - What he said was callous and stupid. I can't believe the stuff that comes out of people's mouth. I think it was more out of defense that he would do what he did than trying to defend her looks in the long run. In my estimation, the OW in our situation looked like a man whose face got smacked with a hot sack of nickels. No, really. When I first asked him who was prettier, he said "you've both very pretty." However, when I saw her picture for the first time I almost fell out of my chair.

I think part of how our WS regards their AP's looks is lost in the fog along with everything else. They need to justify what they're doing, so they talk the AP up in their head until it's somehow defensible.

She looks how she looks. How he writes it is an indication of what's going on inside him.


You? You are beautiful.


(((brokensunflower)))


We are what we repeatedly do, excellence, then is not an act but a habit. - Aristotle

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