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User Topic: Can't kiss her quite just yet (makeout)
2married2quit
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Default  Posted: 12:40 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So it all started with making out with WW & OM and escalated to more. However, I can't get myself to makeout with WW. I just can't. It used to be so special because I was the only man she had ever made out with. I can only do it in the passion & heat of sex. Outside of that, NO! And I told her this. Will it be like this forever? Could this be her cross? Never to makeout with tongue ever again?

It just comes back to me every single time. Much like touching her down there which OM did. HUH!

Having a bad day today. It's like I'm taking steps backwards.

Comments?


BS - Me 43 WS - Her 41
DDAY - June 2012 (found the texts)
DDAY2 - Next Day (found out who) EA
TT- till 9/2012 (some PA)
Married 20yrs. 2kids
Status: in careful R. Sometimes spinning our wheels

Posts: 1221 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
tushnurse
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Member # 21101
Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Find how to make it yours. Your kiss is different from his, because yours has love, depth, and understanding. There is much more to it, thatn just a kiss.

Same with any sexual acts, you know it means more with you, because you love her. She loves you. That other stuff was just sex and fantasy. Not real life.

Try doing these things in a way that is different for you both. Make it mean something, but also new and different.

(((and strength)))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7792 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
2married2quit
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Member # 36555
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

tushnurse - Thank you. Not sure how to make it diff or new, but you're right, I do have to reclaim this.


BS - Me 43 WS - Her 41
DDAY - June 2012 (found the texts)
DDAY2 - Next Day (found out who) EA
TT- till 9/2012 (some PA)
Married 20yrs. 2kids
Status: in careful R. Sometimes spinning our wheels

Posts: 1221 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
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