Was talking to POS for a long time, about mundane things. He then asks if I could send him a power cord that should be sitting on x chair. I told him it isn't there anymore as a lot of things have changed around here and it would be somewhere in the trailer with the rest of his things. There was a pause. I said, "I've told you this several times, and you didn't think I was just bluffing did you?" Him: "Well what about my suits? What shape are they in?" Me: "Everything is in boxes, I didn't just roll them into balls and throw them in there." Conversation ended.
So this tells me he really didn't think I was going to do it! Really? After everything else I have done to separate us in every possible way you didn't think I was going to follow thru with your precious horde?? OMG!! He follows the conversation with a couple of passive aggressive texts, and that tells me he is really pissed! Did he really think nothing would change in the house after his two and a half month disappearance? Really?? We've been working on dissolution paperwork, and this comes as a surprise?? Did he think I would just politely ask him to come in the house and let him pack his own stuff while I, in the meantime, have to sit here and look at it and trip over it until that time happens? Not even knowing when he would be coming back?
I just can't wrap my brain around the fact that he is genuinely surprised and now pissed! I've told him repeatedly in emails his stuff was going in the trailer!!! BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994 - never stopped
3 kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 10/18/13!!!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare