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User Topic: It's that time again...
Flatlined123
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I so struggle with this time of the year. This is when it really came to a head and H was so shitty to me.

I just sat and watched the local fireworks and remembered taking the kids to see them alone because H wouldn't go with us. I know now it was because he used the time to call OW.

We went to a graduation party today. It was at friends of ours whose mom saw H and OW at he casino on thir overnight trip together. He was supposed to be taking some time to think about us. Instead he took OW

We're talking about reaffirming our vows on our 25th anniversary next year. I wrote mine already. The thing is I don't know if I can say them.

I don't want to D. I just want he hurt to go away. The sad thing is that I don't see the possibility of that ever happening. This will ALWAYS hurt. Maybe not as much as originally, but it'll always hurt.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 677 | Registered: Jun 2012
HeartInADustpan
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Member # 38341
Default  Posted: 10:02 PM, June 8th (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This will ALWAYS hurt. Maybe not as much as originally, but it'll always hurt.

Yes. It's as simple as that. Yes, it will. I'm so sorry you're hurting.


Just call me Heart. :)
Reconciling
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything" ~Mark Twain

Posts: 379 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: St. Louis
Flatlined123
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Member # 35862
Default  Posted: 6:34 AM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you Heart.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 677 | Registered: Jun 2012
Sirius
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Member # 16001
Default  Posted: 1:07 PM, June 9th (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is my "time of the year", too. I'm a wreck.

If your fWH is willing, share these feelings with him. He needs to hear it. And you need for him to hear those things that caused pain.


Me: BH, 45
Her: WW, 40
Kids: 17,13,13
D-Day (PA): 7/11/07
R-Day: 9/16/07
D-Day (EA): 6/17/12

Posts: 172 | Registered: Aug 2007
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