I know it shouldn't bother me and I shouldn't even be looking.
Well, actually, I think this kind of thing SHOULD bother you! And you should keep looking! Why would you think you shouldn't be bothered that your husband continues to be involved in whatever way with other women? Why should that be okay? Why should you extend to him blind trust (aka not looking) when he's proven time & again that he is not trustworthy?
D-Day, June 10, 2012
I, too, think it's time to end your relationship with xBF completely.