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User Topic: Are those fumes getting stronger?
suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One can only hope.

It's amazing the stuff you hear or see about these crappy "relationships" when you're not even looking for it. I hope this post helps someone who is waiting for the bus to come barreling around the corner. It's been almost three years for me and, at first, those two fuckers walked around like rainbows and skittles shot out of their asses. They went on vacations, met each others families, hosted happy hours and walked around town like they were carved out of cream cheese. Now? Rainbows and skittles seem to have been replaced with beer, pork rinds and fifty extra pounds on exWH.

Anyway, a few examples.

My youngest kid decided to spill some info the other night about OW. My kids hate her and every time they are over there, she just helps solidify their opinion of her. Anyway, my littlest is six. She was the last kid to wash up for the night and OW and her kids were waiting for her so they could all have a snack. My exWH does nothing quickly so my kid was last to go and so exwh likely did not comport with twat slinger's time line as he was helping our kid clean up for bed. So, what does OW do? Instead of being nice about it, she screams " I'm not waiting! Have your snack on our own."

Nice.

So, I ask, how does she treat dad?

My DD says, well she won't scream at him like she does to the kids. But, she will lower her voice, give him a dirty look and say stuff like "you never do anything right."

Hear that? Breathe it in friends. Breathe it in.

I also heard that she flips if he is five feet away from her when all the kids are around. So much so that she apparently gave him a bag of shit for taking DS aside to talk with him alone.

Oh, and DD got hurt at school a few weeks ago. I don't know if OW can see when he gets a text, but I had to text him quite a bit about it one night. The next time he saw DD, he snapped a phone pic of the injury. DD told me that he must have shown the pic to OW because she hadnt seen it yet, but commented on how it was healing. My guess is he did that to prove that she really was hurt.

Again, can you smell all those fumes?

I hope you can. Aside from the issues of her acting bitchy toward my kids, this kind of shit makes me grin from ear to ear. It sounds like a fucked up, miserable existence and it's nothing short of what both of those stupid mother fuckers deserve.

I can't wait until the whole thing smashes apart and I see them both laying under that bus!


BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

Posts: 2493 | Registered: Jan 2011
Helen of Troy
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Funny  Posted: 1:02 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

have been replaced with beer, pork rinds and fifty extra pounds on exWH.

same here! fOW/wife swears at him and orders him around. She in turn has to do his parenting like pick up his kids by herself, hmm nice ploy for him to buy time to hook up with OWs She plays infidelity cop as he tries to take phone into the bathroom.

Sooo glad that is NOT my life.

[This message edited by will get by at 1:02 PM, June 6th (Thursday)]


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tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nice. Couldn't happen to two nicer people.

I honestly can't wait until STBX and OW get married and move in together. Gosh, I have the sneaking suspicion that it won't be nearly as fun as their long-distance, hook up for nooky on the sly relationship was. As someone mentioned on a previous thread, the romance starts to fade a little when you're cleaning the skid marks off of your former AP-turned-spouse's undies.


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Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3387 | Registered: Oct 2011
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hear so much from my kids (and his family) about him. I almost feel sorry for him. But then, I remember THIS IS HIS CHOICE:

When he isn't allowed to talk to me without me being on speaker phone and her in the room. Which is why we do not talk. She checks his phone bill to make sure she hasn't missed a phone call with his kids, mother, father, sister, niece, nephew, and Kajem.

When he isn't allowed to talk to his parents/sister without her sitting in on the conversation.

He is not allowed to travel (for any reason) without her or one of her approved escorts ie, her kids.

He is not allowed to Have money other than the allowance she gives him each week.

He cooks and cleans the house, so that she doesn't have to do that.

He maintains the outside of the house and grounds as she can't do it.

He has had to give up walking, because she doesn't like to do it. Also hiking, swimming, and a few other things... like his favorite music.

He is not allowed to mention his daughter and grand daughter as she has declared them disowned from the family.

He is living the life I had when married to him.

His CHOICE. May they have a long and happy life together.

I deserve better.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4002 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't wait until the whole thing smashes apart and I see them both laying under that bus!

Sounds like it has happened. I don't wish they would break up - I hope they live like this for as long as possible.

He is living the life I had when married to him.

@ Kajem, Best.Karma.Every.


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"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

Posts: 4507 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, June 6th (Thursday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But, she will lower her voice, give him a dirty look and say stuff like "you never do anything right."

Is your ex with my ex? She wasn't a screamer but it sure did make her feel good to criticize like that.

Sounds like he's getting a great big dose of what he deserves.


Posts: 1314 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Arizona
peridot
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My XH and OW have been together for 5 yrs that I know of. Last year the OW told me that they had almost broken up several times. Of course she blamed it on me and my kids.

I wonder how long that relationship will last now that me and the kids are out of the picture. They can't blame their problems on us now.


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

***Honeymoons do not last forever***

((((huge hugs))))


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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Heavy Sigh
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, June 7th (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fumes?

With all of that madness around them, dealing with each other's kids and exes, sounds like the whole darn fleet of buses parked permanently at their house.

His life with you probably seems like a vacation now.


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