SSM - Have you thought about what you would want, if you could go in any direction you wanted?
What would make you happy, other than being fabulously wealthy I mean.
I found I had mostly what I wanted, except more time for me, and more money. The things I really want that are unreachable won't be in about 8 years, and I can wait. I would love to live someplace where it's warm all year, where I can fish before and/or after work, have more time to do volunteer work. I have my place in mind, but have to wait until the kiddos are out of school, or at least in Grad school.
We are slowly putting together our Long Term Plan, since our original Long Term Plan is coming to an end. Who'd of thought those 2 kids 25+ years ago would reach almost everything on their list. But we have, and then some.