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User Topic: Midlife Crisis - am I having one?
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 12:59 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SSM - Have you thought about what you would want, if you could go in any direction you wanted?

What would make you happy, other than being fabulously wealthy I mean.

I found I had mostly what I wanted, except more time for me, and more money. The things I really want that are unreachable won't be in about 8 years, and I can wait. I would love to live someplace where it's warm all year, where I can fish before and/or after work, have more time to do volunteer work. I have my place in mind, but have to wait until the kiddos are out of school, or at least in Grad school.

We are slowly putting together our Long Term Plan, since our original Long Term Plan is coming to an end. Who'd of thought those 2 kids 25+ years ago would reach almost everything on their list. But we have, and then some.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want to have a younger body and skin that isn't aging. Eyes that see as well as they used to. Feet that don't hurt like shit when I wear heels. Hair that isn't turning gray. More money in the bank than I have... more safety cushion. More opportunity to travel with friends and go fun places. More friends to go fun places with.

The direction I want to go is South - to a tropical island.


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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TrulyReconciled
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, June 10th (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey, that's what we ALL want


"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."

Posts: 21103 | Registered: Dec 2003 | From: Hell and back, way back :o)
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:13 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well Heck, I want all that too!!!

At least your feet only hurt when you wear heels. After 20+ years of abuse on my body from being an RN, I hurt all the dang time.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8489 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
stupidstupidme
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Default  Posted: 9:21 AM, June 11th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I want something to feel excited about. There isn't anything really WRONG, or that I'm upset about, but I'm just not excited about much these days, and it feels empty. Not sure how else to describe it.


Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson

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