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User Topic: Halleluja! He finally filed!
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been bracing myself for the job of filing for D. P/A NPD FTG said he would do it. I told him back in Feb I wanted to be done with D by the end of the year. He said "me too".

Of course you know with a P/A there has to be punishment stalling and blameshifting before anything gets done. In California there is a minimum of 6 months from date of filing to final decree, if there are no delays. Well, whaddaya know. What a huge surprise. Day late dollar short he didn't get the papers filed in May. Nope. June 3rd. Hahahaha I coulda toldya that was gonna happen.

So we will still be legally married for 2013 taxes. I have been receiving unemployment benefits (which are taxable income) and have NOT been having taxes withheld. So there will be taxes due and he is gonna have to pay his share. Hahaha.

I am just glad it will be over, SOMEDAY.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1202 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 5:48 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay for having the clock started, albeit a bit later than planned.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25504 | Registered: Aug 2011
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, June 3rd (Monday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Having a celebratory beer.

Might have another.

eta just SO glad I didn't have to do it. I was almost ready to give in and do it this week.

[This message edited by heartbroken_kk at 10:42 PM, June 3rd (Monday)]


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1202 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:33 AM, June 4th (Tuesday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo-hoo for getting to the next step!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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