Topic: Such a good word
Member # 31663
| Posted: 9:18 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013|
FINAL!!! I decided to check online to see the status of the D and was surprised to see a final decree issued on May 28th! They told me it would be anywhere from June 3rd to the 10th... it took EIGHT days from the time we finally filed for it to be final. Wow!
I am having lots of mixed emotions. The main one is RELIEF. I am also very happy. One emotion I didn't expect, but have to acknowledge is there, is sadness. Don't get me wrong - I am NOT sad that I divorced douchebag, but I guess I'm just sad about losing what "should have been". Does that make sense??
Anyway... I am going to go crack open that bottle of wine I have in the fridge. WOOT!!
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos
Posts: 786 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Las Vegas
Member # 32554
| Posted: 9:46 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013|
Here's to a good new beginning! <clink!>
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 9239 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 19595
| Posted: 10:12 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013|
Cheers to your new freedom !
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a second chance to be happy.
Posts: 20322 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
Member # 23087
| Posted: 11:07 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013|
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor is just an idiot in tin foil."
Posts: 1074 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Middle USA
Member # 34697
| Posted: 8:32 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013|
Happy New Beginning to you!
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Posts: 4541 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Member # 20150
| Posted: 10:56 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013|
Sadness mixed with relief is definitely the standard emotion around here.
Followed by congratulations!
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Posts: 17123 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Member # 39204
| Posted: 2:36 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013|
I know it's bittersweet - but congratulations.
3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
Me. - moving on and upward !!!
Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
Member # 36870
| Posted: 3:39 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013|
Understand the hint of sadness, but believe me happier times lie ahead.
D-Day 19 July 2012
Me - BS - 42
Posts: 181 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: England
Member # 24961
| Posted: 6:44 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013|
Congratulations on having it over with! Hope you enjoyed that wine. :)
BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
Posts: 5361 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
Member # 33698
| Posted: 8:36 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013|
Congrats-- bittersweet, it's true, but I hope to be joining you in the final stage soon!
BS (Me) 39
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Posts: 3537 | Registered: Oct 2011
Member # 33226
| Posted: 8:49 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013|
I'm just sad about losing what "should have been". Does that make sense?? It makes a lot of sense. Congratulations on being final. And best of luck on your new beginning!
You can call me NIK
Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
Posts: 24393 | Registered: Aug 2011
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