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lostinlv
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

FINAL!!! I decided to check online to see the status of the D and was surprised to see a final decree issued on May 28th! They told me it would be anywhere from June 3rd to the 10th... it took EIGHT days from the time we finally filed for it to be final. Wow!

I am having lots of mixed emotions. The main one is RELIEF. I am also very happy. One emotion I didn't expect, but have to acknowledge is there, is sadness. Don't get me wrong - I am NOT sad that I divorced douchebag, but I guess I'm just sad about losing what "should have been". Does that make sense??

Anyway... I am going to go crack open that bottle of wine I have in the fridge. WOOT!!


me, BS-43
him,FWH-42
4 kids (22,20,16,12)
DDay#1 2/?/97 (A with COW in 1995- turns out it never really ended and they are now living together)
DDay#2 4/18/10 -LTA approx 12mos
DIVORCED!!


Posts: 786 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Las Vegas
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's to a good new beginning! <clink!>


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9529 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cheers to your new freedom !

Gma


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20368 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Half way to where I want to be.
Meadhbh
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Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor is just an idiot in tin foil."

Posts: 1074 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Middle USA
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy New Beginning to you!


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4610 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sadness mixed with relief is definitely the standard emotion around here.

Followed by congratulations!


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17340 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
scotslass
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know it's bittersweet - but congratulations.


3 wonderful children (sometimes!!)
18 ds
16 dd
14 ds
Me. - moving on and upward !!!

Posts: 102 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Texas
CallMeRed1
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Default  Posted: 3:39 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!

Understand the hint of sadness, but believe me happier times lie ahead.


D-Day 19 July 2012
Me - BS - 42
Status: Divorced

Posts: 186 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: England
devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 6:44 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations on having it over with! Hope you enjoyed that wine. :)


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5426 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:36 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats-- bittersweet, it's true, but I hope to be joining you in the final stage soon!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3575 | Registered: Oct 2011
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, June 2nd (Sunday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm just sad about losing what "should have been". Does that make sense??
It makes a lot of sense. Congratulations on being final. And best of luck on your new beginning!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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