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purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I'm visiting my sister's family several hours from home. We are celebrating my BIL and both nieces birthdays. My sister invited my dad and step mom (her mother). I wasn't even going to tell them I was coming because they drive me nuts.

So at dinner tonight my dad says "how can you work with all those Muslims and Pakistani doctors? Any one of them could be Taliban!" I. Kid. You. Not. How am I related to this man? I'm a lesbian deist and he's talking to me about Taliban conspiracies. I don't know if I should be offended or watch for signs of dementia.

AND I had to borrow my 14 year old nephew's soap and shampoo. I smell like AXE. It's nauseating and oh so wrong.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2212 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 12:14 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I smell like AXE. It's nauseating and oh so wrong.
I am so sorry, but that just made me laugh. I have to sons who went through an Axe addiction. Thankfully, they are over it now.

I am sorry that your dad is.........clueless? (((purplejacket4)))


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9702 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 5:25 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't know what's worse, the Axe or your dad's remarks .

Seriously, I can't tolerate shit like those comments.

My FIL used to use the Yiddish derogatory word for African Americans in front of my kids. I asked him to stop and he asked me what he should call 'them'. I said, how about that guy or woman, instead of identifying him or her by race. He totally couldn't relate to that concept.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 7:43 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel your pain (but luckily, I don't smell it )

I'm going to visit my family on Sunday. My brother hasn't spoken to me since election night...he is such an ass.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20221 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PJ)))


I'm sorry... My granparents used to be like your dad... It was hard to listen to.

Sorry about the AXE too... that must be awful.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24538 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now he just told my ten year old niece if she didn't "honor her father and mother" she'll die young like his sister. She died at 53 from a stroke . WTF is wrong with him?!?!?


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2212 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 11:51 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would start telling him wrong dates, times & places for future family functions.

Seriously & hopefully others in your family see the trouble too, and shield younger members from him. We had an elderly relative in dementia start acting that way, but even with that reason it was tough to take.


ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

Posts: 1005 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: MA
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 11:00 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last vent. When we got back from the baseball game and he was leaving he said "remember niece of purple, honor your father and mother."

Niece chimed back: "and always have a man in the house!"

WTF is that supposed to mean. Way to encourage independence and self worth in a child. I kid you not hat this is NOT the man who raised me. Grrrr!!!!


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2212 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
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