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User Topic: Unexpected compliment
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 4:19 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This week, I ran into a former fwb. Last year, I got my hair dyed dark and started letting it grow out.

While he and I were talking, he commented twice on how good my hair looks. When he left, he said that I definately need to let it keep growing.

This from a man that never complimented me when we were fwb.

I think it's probably more that I am happier and just totally rocking life in general right now, but it was good to hear from him.

The incident just really made me smile.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7646 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
cayc
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Default  Posted: 4:41 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"The difference between involvement and commitment is like ham and eggs. The chicken is involved, the pig is committed." -Martina Navratilova
"The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me." -Ayn Rand

Posts: 3089 | Registered: Dec 2008 | From: Mexico
better4me
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

compliments--gotta love 'em!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3130 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
persevere
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Default  Posted: 5:52 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great WM!!! And I think you're right - your current mindset is showing thru and shining.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4516 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 6:13 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
stronggirl72
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Default  Posted: 6:50 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think it's probably more that I am happier and just totally rocking life in general right now

^^^ YES!!

[This message edited by stronggirl72 at 6:52 PM, May 31st (Friday)]


"Taking the high road, and doing it with class."

DIVORCED!!


Posts: 154 | Registered: Oct 2012
Bebba1171
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good for you!

Any gal with Corgis is Hot Hot Hot!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo-HOO!!!


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2721 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:38 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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wonderingbull
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Default  Posted: 1:01 PM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you're rockin it girl!

WB


The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor


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