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User Topic: Residential treatment tomorrow - needing support
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you - hoping the move goes well. (((NIK & family)))


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10430 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
tesla
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so happy that she is able to go somewhere that will address her needs. And I'm so glad that you see the wisdom of giving her that push toward gaining independence skills.

Thinking of you and your family today.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4693 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and DD)))

Think of you today!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24601 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope things go well for you today and that your daughter learns the skills she needs.

Posts: 1755 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 11:58 AM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well????

How'd it go?

Is she settling in?

How are you doing?


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5459 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just got back home. The intake went very smoothly. DD was nervous/excited this morning, but she handled her self extremely well. The staff we met were all wonderful, enthusiastic, friendly, and focused on DD. All good.

After a little time organizing her room, she told both me and wasband that we should go ahead and leave, gave us hugs, and padded off.

So she's there, she's somewhat comfortable, and I'm back home. And home seems rather quiet and empty.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 1:13 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

I will continue to keep your DD in my thoughts and prayers.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 1:36 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad the intake went well


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37470 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
itainteasy
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Default  Posted: 2:07 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope your DD settles in comfortably, and I hope you can get some rest in between worrying about her..

Posts: 3423 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: NWPA
Lucky
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Default  Posted: 2:11 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( NIK & DD )))

Sending love and healing thoughts...


♥ WINE - the other fruit juice! ♥


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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 2:12 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NIK, when's the last time you lived alone? How are YOU doing??


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:28 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ama - I have NEVER lived alone. Ever. Came from a very large family (8 siblings), always had roommates in college, and then got married and had kids.

This is very odd for me, but it's also (understandably) welcome. I cannot remember the last time I was still. The last time I was ABLE to be still, both in mind and body. There has been no respite for so long, I can't recall what it feels like. I'm fairly confident I'm 180 degrees out of plumb at this point. And it's time for that to change.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And to answer your other question, I'm doing ok. I am completely exhausted - mentally, emotionally, and physically. I'm settled at home for the rest of the day. No where to be and nothing to do, so I can just be.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad it went smoothly and she shooed you out :)

Take it easy this weekend.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5459 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

I'm glad it went well. Sending you good thoughts and strength.


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((NIK))))))))))
I'm so glad the intake went well. Now it's time to take care of you and I bet you don't even know where to start. Do something really nice for yourself this weekend. Something you just love. It's a new start for everyone



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 6:09 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Now it's time to take care of you and I bet you don't even know where to start.
You are so right, meta. I'm kind of sitting around staring at walls at the moment. I plan to sleep sleep SLEEP as my first step. It's taking everything I've got not to go to bed right now, actually.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, May 31st (Friday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well go to bed then! You've earned it...

I came home at 3:30 and decided to lie down on my new day bed. (A wee snooze before the Sting show tonight.)

Get some rest dearie.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17589 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:46 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you have any idea how much time in the last few years I have spent just staring at the walls? I actually said that to one of my girlfriends during the aftermath of dday, when I was at my most exhausted point. She wanted me to get out of the house, go out, etc. and I just needed to cocoon, so I told her that all I really wanted to do was stare at the walls for a while. She thought I was off my rocker. I equate it to letting your mind process the same way it does while you sleep, but while awake.

Take good care of yourself.


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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Amazonia
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Default  Posted: 5:47 AM, June 1st (Saturday), 2013View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ps are you visiting DD today?


"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ

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