Topic: A moment to remember
Member # 36853
| Posted: 10:31 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013|
I have to stop and smell the roses for a moment...
This morning I shed silent tears because of the involuntary shudders my BH frequently has when we touch. He fights revulsion constantly because of what I did to us. I guess this morning I was being dragged along behind or under the rollercoaster.
Fast forward to this evening...
I was at the sink washing dishes when BH gave me a hug from behind, kissed me on the neck and told me he loves me. I'm a lucky girl.
I'm keeping this moment fresh in my mind for the next dip or plummet.
FWW 40's, BH (knight) 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
Posts: 928 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Member # 28053
| Posted: 10:57 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013|
Those moments are very special early on in R.
Even now, I find it hard to believe we are where we are. I never thought we would get here.
I am happy for you.
Me43 Him 43 Hardlessons DS 24,22,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
Fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth”
― Pema Chödrön
Posts: 3663 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
Member # 31349
| Posted: 10:58 PM, May 26th (Sunday), 2013|
Me: BW 34
Crazz: FWH 32
For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot
Posts: 13825 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Member # 16024
| Posted: 5:41 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013|
Take up your space (and do it well).
"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."
Posts: 33864 | Registered: Sep 2007
Member # 37091
| Posted: 6:28 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013|
I'm happy for you.
FWGF/BGF-me, BBF/WBF-Him, MH's Together 10 yrs
Both had DDays and TT
Do not let others be your reference for who you see in the mirror.
Stop allowing people to hurt you, because you don't love you enough to walk away.
Posts: 2276 | Registered: Oct 2012
Member # 26859
| Posted: 9:27 AM, May 27th (Monday), 2013|
Sounds like it was a great moment for knight too.
WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl
Posts: 5981 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
Member # 29446
| Posted: 2:08 PM, May 27th (Monday), 2013|
Thanks for the post, knightsbff. I was having a down moment today and your post reminded me of the same moments I had the last few days with my husband. It's good to remember that sad moments are just that, and they don't mean whole sad days if we're able to focus on the good and don't lose hope. I'm happy for you.
Me: WW/MH 30s Him: 40s DD: 7 together 14 years, married 13
I confessed PA 6/10. Detailed confession: 9/10. All the truth 9/11.
Moved back together.
Posts: 339 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: California
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