She exceeded my wildest expectations. She is 10 years older than me, but looks more. She's probably 100 lbs heavier (and while I'm not overweight, I am not a tiny person). She was even dressed badly. Her work pants were straining at the seams almost to the point of camel toe. She had a mullet type haircut with bad highlights, a bumpy nose, a saggy double chin... I was stunned that WH had ever found her attractive.
The positive to come out of that encounter was that after seeing her, I could be certain that none of this mess was about me.
[This message edited by roughroadahead at 9:18 AM, June 22nd (Saturday)]
In addition to being extremely ugly (think female linebacker with 5 chins & weird demon eyes.. no offense to linebackers Actually OW honest to goodness looks like Fiona from Shrek, same body everything & her BH does look like Shrek as well) OW is a lost soul.. she goes from BFF to BFF .. she will be posting how XYZ is her BFF & they are inseparable . they have their little 'inside' FB jokes (can you say high school?) & then all of a sudden BOOM this BFF is gone & another one is in her place.. She seems to find needy people, gets to be their BFF, buys them stuff, does everything for them & then once they seem to be a free person, she dumps them.
All sort of what she did to WH... Once he filed for D, she wanted no more part of him & has NEVER contacted him since the A ended.
glad the photo made you feel better, I totally understand
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Simularities between me and other woman: glasses, hair color, eye color, about the same body built....but her boobs are like...twice the size of mine. She's only a year younger and at the time of their affair...I was heavily pregnant, so she was skinner by default. Also, she had a lot of really trashy looking tattoos. I'm a fan of tattoos (don't have any yet tho), but hers were really trashy looking, but WH thought they were hot. I've looked all threw her FB pics, and if I am honest with myself, she is kind of pretty but only when she smiles. However, she has an ugly heart and that tops all of the above. BTW, I started wearing my contacts everyday again and dyed my hair a lighter color. lol
[This message edited by Tired05 at 3:40 PM, June 22nd (Saturday)]
I wouldn't say she isn't attractive, just the polar opposite of me. Short, blonde, huge boobs, uneducated. She smokes, doesn't work out, has a young child.
There are statistics that show that generally the OW isn't as attractive as the spouse.
She was sure to let me know that he was into her because of her age and her boobs. OK that's nice....